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Trans*/Trans* relationships

Started by cynthialee, February 11, 2013, 09:21:02 PM

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Have you ever been in a dual trans* relationship? That is to say where you both are trans* of some type?

Yes. I am currently in such a relationship.
Yes. I used to be in such a relationship but we broke up.
No. I have never been in such a relationship.
No. And I would never even consider such a dysphoria inducing hell on earth!
No. But I have entertained the idea because I am secretly or openly attracted to a member of the comunity.
I had to pick this option because Cyndi is short sighted and didn't think of my life circumstances. (Place your answer in the replys.)
I just like to look at poll results. Show me the results. :D

justmeinoz

Currently in such a relationship.  We are together regardless of our transness, and just see ourselves as two women in love.
"Don't ask me, it was on fire when I lay down on it"
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Brooke777

Quote from: The Original Cami on February 12, 2013, 02:24:00 AM
I never have but I definitely would. I think it could be an amazing relationship because the other would understand much of what I have been though and vise versa. Any takers? Haha!

Sure! But you have to come to me.  ;D
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Bexi

Definitely! I'm pansexual - so I like anything with a pulse hehe! More and more I find myself falling for a person, irrespective of what's in their pants.

That said though, I do harbor an affinity for trans*people. Knowing you're with someone who has been through what you have is a great mutual bond.

[also the sex is pretty amazing]

x
Sometimes you have to trust people to understand you are not perfect
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suzifrommd

Not sure what option this would be. I've never been attracted to any specific trans person, but if I were to meet one where we had a mutual interest, I'd happily go ahead.
Have you read my short story The Eve of Triumph?
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Annah

i was in a mtf relationship once. Not a very good experience at all. It ended with me having to do a restraining order. This was about 3 years ago.

I have nothing against trans/trans relationships but im perfectly fine dating guys atm.
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Shantel

I have always preferred to have a woman partner and would prefer a trans woman over cis simply because there is some commonality of mindset that is not usually the case between me and cis females. I find that not only do we innately know what blows the other's hair back during intimate moments, but there is much less drama to contend with, I have little patience for drama. I had a trans woman girlfriend but it became such an affront to my marriage that is was over before it really got strong. Still, if I found myself single again I would opt for a relationship with a trans woman over a cis female.
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Ellieka

Quote from: Brooke777 on February 12, 2013, 09:18:39 AM
Sure! But you have to come to me.  ;D

As long as you're within 50 miles :p
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Trixie

I was in a relationship with another trans girl. We broke up (or rather, I broke up with her). The break up had nothing to do with our genders or sexualities.
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Joe.

I voted for no but I would. I'm into a trans guy at the minute and he knows. We're not official or anything but we're just getting to know each other and taking things slow. I can imagine it being a nice understanding relationship though.

Joey
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Brooke777

Quote from: The Original Cami on February 12, 2013, 03:41:55 PM
As long as you're within 50 miles :p

I'm within 50 miles of the Seattle airport.  ;D
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cynthialee

I am rather surprised by the results so far.
So it is said that if you know your enemies and know yourself, you can win a hundred battles without a single loss.
If you only know yourself, but not your opponent, you may win or may lose.
If you know neither yourself nor your enemy, you will always endanger yourself.
Sun Tsu 'The art of War'
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Adam (birkin)

How so?

One thing I find interesting is that, in terms of transition, it can really have two effects. It can tear a relationship apart, and cause two people with similar issues to tear each other apart, or it can create a very deepened level of understanding. I find that odd, to be honest, that there seem to be two extremes.
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Ellieka

Quote from: Brooke777 on February 12, 2013, 05:16:16 PM
I'm within 50 miles of the Seattle airport.  ;D

I'll get started on learning to fly :D
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Brooke777

Quote from: The Original Cami on February 13, 2013, 12:55:46 PM
I'll get started on learning to fly :D

It's easy. All you need are happy thoughts and some pixie dust.  ;D
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Jamie D

Quote from: crazy at the coast on February 11, 2013, 10:39:41 PM
Heck, at this point, I'm doubting that I will ever even date again, period. I've gone many, many years without, I suppose I could continue, plus the idea of being in a relationship of any sort scares the hell out of me.

What are you doing Saturday night?  8)
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Shantel

Quote from: Pleasingly Plump Jamie D on February 13, 2013, 01:19:52 PM
What are you doing Saturday night?  8)

Wait,wait,wait, I wanted to ask her about Saturday night!.....grrrrrr Jamie D
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Kevin Peña

Why not Sunday night? Seriously, why is it always Saturday?  ???
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Ms. OBrien CVT

Sunday is when you always nurse the hangover.

  
It does not take courage or bravery to change your gender.  It takes fear of living one more day in the wrong one.~me
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Kevin Peña

Why not do what Bruce Wayne does and drink ginger ale, pretending it's some sort of alcoholic beverage? You won't be hung over and you'll actually remember the night before.  :laugh:

Anyway, I still don't get the big deal. Can someone give me one good reason that trans/trans relationships are questionable? If I were to date a trans person, I'd feel a common understanding.  ???
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