TS Admirers - What makes 'em tick?

[Octavianus]

Some of the things guys have said when begging me to have sex with them, over the years:

You know what men like better than a woman would.
I like when my GF/wife backdoors me with a dildo.  I want to know what real flesh feels like but doing it with a guy would be gross.
->-bleeped-<-s give the best head.  They look like women when they are doing it, but can take more cock in their mouths, because they have bigger heads and oral cavaties.
I have never had a ->-bleeped-<-, and I want to experience everything life has to offer.
I was involved with a ->-bleeped-<- before, and it was the best sex I ever had.
Being with a ->-bleeped-<- is the best of both worlds.  You get sex with a woman, but the rest of the time, it's like hanging out with a buddy.

You are not kidding, are you? I am trying to imagine myself standing in your shoes recieving such comments. Most probably I would suggest them to pay an escort.
What is exactly wrong with these hormone and obsession driven males?

[GinaDouglas]

You are not kidding, are you? I am trying to imagine myself standing in your shoes recieving such comments. Most probably I would suggest them to pay an escort.
What is exactly wrong with these hormone and obsession driven males?

No, not kidding.  But that's across 25 years of experience.

Alot of them did think it was a matter of money, that if they offered me enough money, or some other coin I valued, that I would do it with them.  Even though I didn't want to.  And me wanting to mattered not a whit to them either.

[Octavianus]

It seems you regrettably met some very low class men. It gets me thinking, do they treat all women that way or only women in your situation?

[GinaDouglas]

Some men treat all women as mercenary sex-objects, and some men only treat ->-bleeped-<-s that way.

Did you ever look at Craigslist personals, just to see what's out there?  Check out the posts under T4M and M4T.  Makes my skin crawl.

[Octavianus]

Just had my first visit to the site and did as you told.

I am a pilgrim in an unholy land 

[Pundit]

I guess you could call me a "TS admirer." There seems to be a lot of dislike toward them in this thread, though, so I hesitate to say that. I'm not really sure why I'm attracted to transsexual and transgendered folk (only MTF, however). It doesn't have anything to do with sex or genitals, because I'm pretty sure I'm asexual (I've never felt sexual attraction or desire before). Maybe I just don't make a distinction between natal women and MTF women; a woman is a woman is a woman to my brain, I guess.

[Chaser]

"it's just a good job i was born a woman. X"

Thank God, that explains it ! hahaha

"There is something exciting about a woman who has escaped being conditioned as a woman and has instead had opportunities men get. "

This can only be written by someone who is a somewhat masculine woman, bisexual, or a lesbian. 

I am a lesbian yes, and a few months after writing what i wrote i met a rather nice translesbian who is also a feminist, we have been together over a year now. She is quite feminine, but has no need to wear make up as she is more attractive then most cis gendered women anyway, i never thought i would meet a transwomen who can wear cargo pants with crocs and still pass in the way that she does, without even looking butch, she is more feminine then me anyway! and i am not butch, or masculine in a conventional sense, i just have a mind of my own and do not need to think about what men think of me. But i quess that is considered masculine by some.

[Dana Lane]

I guess you could call me a "TS admirer." There seems to be a lot of dislike toward them in this thread, though, so I hesitate to say that. I'm not really sure why I'm attracted to transsexual and transgendered folk (only MTF, however). It doesn't have anything to do with sex or genitals, because I'm pretty sure I'm asexual (I've never felt sexual attraction or desire before). Maybe I just don't make a distinction between natal women and MTF women; a woman is a woman is a woman to my brain, I guess.

I think there is a huge difference between you and what they are talking about in this thread. I think there are a lot of us that don't like what we are going through to be the target of a fetish group.  I can't stand it to be honest. I don't want anyone asking me about the junk in my panties, touching it or anything at all dealing with it. And most t-->-bleeped-<-s I believe want that. I have no problem with t-admirers who don't look at me as desirable because of my pre-op status.

[Aidan_]

I hope I never run into someone who will be into "->-bleeped-<-s"...I honestly don't know whether I'd be scared or outraged. Needless to say those people that look at the transgendered/transsexual populous as sexual "jewels" are probably suffering from some other affliction...Gosh I'd probably just run and move away @_@

[Pundit]

I think there is a huge difference between you and what they are talking about in this thread. I think there are a lot of us that don't like what we are going through to be the target of a fetish group.  I can't stand it to be honest. I don't want anyone asking me about the junk in my panties, touching it or anything at all dealing with it. And most t-->-bleeped-<-s I believe want that. I have no problem with t-admirers who don't look at me as desirable because of my pre-op status.

Oh, okay, then I understand that. Male, female, trans, whatever, I'd be pretty pissed off if somebody liked me only for my junk or lack thereof. And I can see how it's doubly insulting to MTFs, since they so strongly want to get away from any kind of male identification.

[kimberrrly]

It really depends on the person you are dating.

Amongst admirers there are great sweet handsome and normal men too!
Not all are obsessed with the "male" parts on transwoman.

[Cruelladeville]

*TS Admirers - What makes 'em tick?*

Rhymes with ?

Dick....

Arggh me thinks we have a (closet) winner with this line o thought baby....

[Natasha]

*TS Admirers - What makes 'em tick?*

Rhymes with ?

Dick....

right on.   if you're pre-op or..umm... "non-op", chances are that you're going to have plenty of "admirers".  lol

[MillieB]

'->-bleeped-<-s give the best head.  They look like women when they are doing it, but can take more cock in their mouths, because they have bigger heads and oral cavaties.'

That has to be the least sexy thing that I have ever heard in my entire life!!

I do think that it's a bit unfair to claim that all men who like trans women fall into this catagory but tbh I will wait until I have plucked up the courage to start dating before reaching conclusions, guys do have a habit of confirming your worst fears!

[Vallin]

I think that the apparent strangeness of the situation is a real mind bender.  That in itself can be erotic.

Cindi

I agree. "Strangeness" is very intriguing and exciting for "str8" men who have admired cis-women all their lives.

[Vallin]

After many decades, some str8 men realize that they don't really like ciswomen anymore (they can be a bit boring).

[pebbles]

I was curious about this too so I explored and found some of them on a fetish forum.

The ones I saw were not all that interested in the reality of What transwomen actually are like they were drawn to something else a fantasy on what they think it would be like. Only a small section were interested in real material of transwomen. more were turned on by ideas involving rapid transformations from matcho men into ultra femmy females that can't happen in reality

and those who were sharing images of real trans-women some of them were debating on weather it was wrong to share those images because of the intended purpose by the author. there was some amusing bickering about this. (Least I don't jack off to captain planet!) lol

I did tell them breaking my cover "I really don't care about what you masturbate to."
beyond that.

What the images they were sharing consisted of basically transition slide shows so you know our before after and one in-between shot.
however some of them were naked compared to what I've seen here... which was bit of a shock when I see people I know in this forum NAKED.

[VeryGnawty]

Being with a ->-bleeped-<- is the best of both worlds.  You get sex with a woman, but the rest of the time, it's like hanging out with a buddy.

This guy is going to get himself into a lot of trouble if he assumes that all Tgirls are low maintenance...

[Nygeel]

I've only experienced ->-bleeped-<-s/objectifiers/"admirers." They will say things that invalidate who you are (either your sex or gender). They might push you to not do certain parts of transition, or push you to do certain parts. They make generalizations of trans people and in many ways believe all trans people are the same.

An example would be this woman I was with who said I just needed top surgery and shouldn't go on T.

[tekla]

They make generalizations of trans people and in many ways believe all trans people are the same.

Unlike here for example.