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TS Admirers - What makes 'em tick?

Started by HelenW, May 29, 2007, 08:08:20 PM

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Vallin

ALL men objectify and fetishize the female form. ALL the time. They lie, cis-women lie, and you're lying to yourselves if you really think otherwise. Yes, you did it, too!
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Nygeel

Quote from: Vallin on February 09, 2011, 10:00:14 AM
ALL men objectify and fetishize the female form. ALL the time. They lie, cis-women lie, and you're lying to yourselves if you really think otherwise. Yes, you did it, too!
:|
Whiskey Tango Foxtrot?
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Lee

Oh I'm a lucky man to count on both hands the ones I love

A blah blog
http://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/board,365.0.html
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pebbles

Quote from: Lee on February 09, 2011, 12:55:13 PM
That sounds like a really fun dance, actually.
I imagine Whiskey is actually the prerequisite before doing the Tango-Foxtrot :P
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Devyn

Quote from: Vallin on February 09, 2011, 10:00:14 AM
ALL men objectify and fetishize the female form. ALL the time. They lie, cis-women lie, and you're lying to yourselves if you really think otherwise. Yes, you did it, too!

What about gay guys? As far as I'm aware, gay guys don't objectify and fetishize the female form. At least, every gay guy I've met doesn't.
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Amazon D

i use to be what some might call a ->-bleeped-<- but not for the same reason as many men might. I sought someone like myself (or a FTM at times) but when i did meet someone they wanted to have sex too soon so it never went anywhere. I guess i was more interested in the dream of true love and so that never happened and well the cis men bothered me so i started to dress down and got my implants removed and cut my hair and take care of the elderly for the last 5 yrs. and live as a kinda FTM  ???

an old site where i wrote about that love i sought but never found  :embarrassed: http://web.archive.org/web/20050205065104/hometown.aol.com/danielegrl/  :'(
I'm an Amazon womyn + very butch + respecting MWMF since 1999 unless invited. + I AM A HIPPIE

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Cruelladeville

Way, way back....to those heady early pre-transition days in London...

There were one or two clubs I ventured in to Café de Paris types, where it was 'safe' to arrive dressed and explore ones new-found femininity... These naturally as a consequence attracted 'chaps' present whom I guess you'd term '->-bleeped-<-s'...

(New meat would obvioulsy get the ole hands in a lather)

As always they're looking for the perfect outta girlie, uber pretty, sexy barbie-doll shell.... with that something extra....ideally 6" rock hard and fully working...

But god, no, whatever are you suggesting?? - THEY ARE NOT GAY!!!

Twas why I didn't go back more than once or twice....the 'fetish' anything scene just isn't really my thang...

And it was what drove me to transform as convincingly as absolute possible, so that I could venture out and play in the real world as opposed to being 'objectified' in a fantasy one...

Yep fat women, hairy women, anorexic women, red haired women, blondes, brunettes, latex wearing women, boot-clad dominatrix type women, nappy wearing, high-heeled stiletto women, pi##ing women.... nylon/silk/satin clad women... you name it, and yep ladyboyz, chix-wid-dicks etc, etc...included.

Whatever the weirdness of the fetish -  they'll be blokes out there that have a quirky hard-on and bent for it....  :-\

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Alex201

Ha, yes ...I had an idiot who contacted me through email and said he wanted advice about his trans child. He asked me questions about what kind of changes would happen...which I thought was fine at first. Then he started asking me to describe in detail...what T would do to me.  I thought that was kinda odd because we were suppose to be talking about his mtf child. He eventually asked me to contact his kid through email to mentor him...which I agreed to do. His supposed kid started asking me the same questions his supposed father had asked me...about what changes would happen to me.

To make a long story short....I was later warned by another TS friend that this guy was going around online trying to talk to TS people because he had some kind of sexual fetish. She gave me the emails to look out for incase I was contacted. Lo and behold...it was the same email of that guy who I had been trying to help. Apparently he has two email accounts set up to talk to trans people while he gets off.  What a sicko.
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MillieB

Hmm, when I saw the title of this thread my first thought was this






Sticking that in their rucksack would make them tick >:-) >:-)

Seriously, I don't know and I'm pretty sure that I don't care. I'm not even sure that I like the term as I think that it throws some nice guys into a whole bunch of creepies. There's nothing wrong with having a thing about trans women, just don't objectify those trans women doing it.
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some ftm guy

I've received an e-mail from a guy once on a date site for ts people, he was telling me how much he liked trans men for their bodies that there was something really sexy about them blah blah blah he went on and on,  i forgot about most of what he said, probably for good reason. he was for the most part describing all the filthy things (bdsm and the like) he wanted to do to me just because I'm a trans guy living in the same state as him. creepy that he lives only an hour or so away, good thing he wasn't bad enough to persist. there was only one e-mail from him that i deleted without replying.
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kimberrrly

Quote from: Devyn on February 09, 2011, 02:49:16 PM
What about gay guys? As far as I'm aware, gay guys don't objectify and fetishize the female form. At least, every gay guy I've met doesn't.

They objectify and fetishize the male form ;)
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kimberrrly

Quote from: Vallin on February 09, 2011, 02:17:40 AM
After many decades, some str8 men realize that they don't really like ciswomen anymore (they can be a bit boring).

hihihihi

so girls....
when transitioning.... dont try to be boring ok?
It will make you more convincing but less attractive :D
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JustAnotherDreamer

Quote from: MillieB on February 10, 2011, 09:03:14 PM
Seriously, I don't know and I'm pretty sure that I don't care. I'm not even sure that I like the term as I think that it throws some nice guys into a whole bunch of creepies. There's nothing wrong with having a thing about trans women, just don't objectify those trans women doing it.
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JessicaR

  It didn't take me very long to give up on the ->-bleeped-<-s... I've met quite a few... The funniest thing said to me on a first date was, "I thought you'd be more......masculine." X-D   WTF?  Another was terribly disappointed to find out that HRT had made my pre-op genitalia non-functional.
  The one guy that I did develop feelings for wound up asking me, months into the relationship, if I could take a break from HRT so that I could penetrate him.

   ->-bleeped-<-s aren't straight.. They're bisexual men with unresolved sexuality issues. They all like to use the phrase, "I'm looking for a girl with something extra." They tend to be even more obsessed with sex than straight guys.


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Nygeel

JessicaR, add a "usually" or "in my experiences" and you'd be good to go.

Could always use a strap on. I've got a friend who is a trans woman, she digs using a strap on.
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JessicaR

Quote from: Nygeel on February 11, 2011, 11:08:55 PM
JessicaR, add a "usually" or "in my experiences" and you'd be good to go.

Could always use a strap on. I've got a friend who is a trans woman, she digs using a strap on.

  You're a guy and, therefore, have man cooties. Cooties make your opinion invalid. Didn't U know?
;D


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VeryGnawty

Quote from: JessicaR on February 11, 2011, 10:15:16 PMThe funniest thing said to me on a first date was, "I thought you'd be more......masculine." X-D   WTF?

Unfortunately, a lot of the fetish scene has to do with such stereotypes.  People want the best of both worlds, and they think ->-bleeped-<-s can provide that.  That's why they lose interest when they realize your junk isn't functional.
"The cake is a lie."
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Nygeel

Quote from: JessicaR on February 11, 2011, 11:31:37 PM
  You're a guy and, therefore, have man cooties. Cooties make your opinion invalid. Didn't U know?
;D
FFFUUUUU I can't say the opposite without sounding like a misogynist. DAMN YOU!
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tekla

No Nygeel, but you can pat them on the head, and say: "you're so cute when you think you have an opinion, now get in the kitchen and make me a sammich."
FIGHT APATHY!, or don't...
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