I find it to be the case with pretty much everyone and it ends up making me feel self conscious even around people I don't know. Taking a break from friendships is impossible, too. Not only do I live, eat, sleep, and socialize with all of them, I love them too dearly to ever consider it

I have a huge inner circle of friends, probably 30 or 40 people, and I live with 13 of them.
I've changed my inflection and word choice dramatically, but only rarely am I ever able to hold a pitch that is close to female unless I am alone or feeling especially good after a really good practice session.
I guess that's why I feel like VFS is a good option in my situation, because then my voice would be natural regardless... aka not trying at all to sound a certain way- just letting it happen. And immediately everything else would fall into place, too: sighing, laughing, singing, yawning, etc. I'm also really excited about the singing aspect.
Anybody wanna go to Korea with me and be silent sisters for a week? Lol...
Seriously though, I might do this like... sooooon

Quote from: Rowan Rue on April 22, 2013, 09:20:17 PM
Hmm, this sounds very interesting. Voice surgery is something I'm interested in because Before I started transition I had JUST started to develop a good vocal range for singing and, well, now it's gone. It makes me really sad because I love to sing and it would be amazign if I had a chance at a normal female range.
Jenny, I know what you mean about talking to people who you knew before transition. I had exactly the same problem. Jus feeling super self conscious around them. Do you find that with everyone who knew you before or just some people? There are a few people who I just had to cut out of my life for a while because I just couldn't feel comfortable around them. More recently I saw one of them again and it wasn't an issue (the idea of trying to speak in my old voice just seemed too odd). Maybe just try taking some time off from old friendships?