I just find that, and this isn't everyone, but a lot of trans men and women just try way too hard to be super girly or manly. All we want is to be accepted correctly, but sometimes it just comes off as un-natural when we try too hard. So really, being yourself, makes you more natural. Regardless as to what you think a woman should sound like or not. I mean, who's judging now when we say a woman should always be ditzy or head spoken. It just doesn't work for everyone. If I did that stuff, people would be like, wtf? I have attitude and character. I like to be out there and loud. I do act girly though, just not the stereotype you know? I've never once been told since VFS that I sound un-natural. In fact, I've been told I sound SO girly and come off as super happy now. And I think, that's the most important thing here. Being happy and acting like yourself.
