One teacher I had had a pedophile come in and talk...he said he castrated himself to rid himself of the desire to abuse children, but he STILL fought the urge.
I am also thinking to myself that everything we are "taught" about passing online is 100% wrong. Because the times I feel very good, and feel like I look very male, after passing for a while...I get a ma'am and I'm crushed. But, the times I am convinced I look female and will not pass, I pass with flying colours.
In essence, it's when I defy every single passing "tip" I've seen online that I pass the best. I'm starting to think we need to have new discourse happening.