Quote from: Shantel on July 04, 2013, 07:24:39 PM
I respect you for your hard charging, let's get-er-done approach and your cute relationship with your buddy girl. You'll be more outgoing when you get the latitude to put some of the other BS to rest that you have to deal with now.
Thank you Shantel.
It'll also give me the ability to move, or at the very least more job selection, as my schedule will be freed up and I won't have anything tying me to my city anymore.
Quote from: Simon on July 05, 2013, 10:48:22 AM
Got to breathe a huge sigh of relief today...
My gf's biopsy results came back and it is benign.
Now just waiting for her to have surgery to remove her thyroid June 30th. We can deal with that, easy peasy.
I'm really glad Simon! I'd have felt awful if you all had to deal with something more serious.
A few horrifying things hit me when I woke up. I'm going to my grandparents farm, but as they don't have running water...we shower in town. Well, said showers are sex segregated. Given I pass almost all the time, I am guessing the women's are just out of the question. Lol. And the men's....well, there are curtains, but should anything go wrong I do NOT want to be caught in there with boobs and a vag.
The other is that, my grandparent's friends found out I was transgender last year, but kept using my old name. I may have to have a discussion with them about that, because no one else uses the old name, and I don't want to be seen as a man in town and then have someone call me one of the most feminine names known to man.
I'd choose not to go but my mom said this may be the last year we have the farm.
My grandparents think it's too much for them. My grandpa is grouchy af, and my grandma does all the cooking and cleaning, and all that without electricity is getting to be a real burden. My grandpa doesn't want to install electricity either because he doesn't do any of the work, so he doesn't see the importance.
