I was thinking about texting my ex and seeing if she wanted to chat on Skype, as we've been planning to...but then I was like "no, Taylor Swift is playing on Itunes right now and I don't want to turn her off." Lol. But the song is over and I have now sent the text.
You know, I felt like I took an abnormally long time to get over her. But putting it in perspective, it really didn't. I expected myself to be entirely over it by 3 months post-breakup. And 6 months. But it was a long-term relationship that was going to lead to marriage, so of course it took me about a year to be OK.
As much as I loved her, she took life a little too seriously for me. I don't want someone irresponsible, or unmotivated, but I want someone who can take it easy. Someone like me in that regard I guess.