Susan's Place Logo

News:

Since its founding in 1995 Susan's Place forums have blossomed into a truly global lifeline. To date we've delivered roughly 1.4 billion page views to hundreds of millions of unique visitors, guided more than 41,000 registered members through 1,985,081 posts and 188,474 topics across 193 boards, and—most importantly—helped save tens of thousands of lives by connecting people to vital information and support at their most vulnerable moments.

Main Menu

Predicting her reaction...

Started by The_Suit, July 28, 2013, 10:58:30 AM

Previous topic - Next topic

0 Members and 1 Guest are viewing this topic.

The_Suit

So I told my twin sister that I was trans* a little over a week ago. She was amazing. She told me that she already knew, and she already thought of me as her brother and not her sister. Then she gave me a hug and told me she would help me out if I felt depressed about it. She had a few questions for me, but instead of the stupid ones I was expecting to be asked, such as; "Why did you decide this?" All of her questions were about what I was going to look like after I transitioned.
I have the best sister in the world.
Now I just have to summon the courage to tell my mother and my older sister. I am really worried about what my mother will think though, because she has a friend who has a son who is gay, and every time he is mentioned she says how sorry she feels for his mother. I imagine that in her mind this is much worse, so I am worried about how she will react.

[Edit] (thinking more about how she has reacted to certain things I have a theory in how she will respond.) 
She will certainly cry. She will say something along the lines of "What did I do wrong?" And/or "Is this because of your father?" (He left when I was nine)
After she is done crying she will start saying things like "This is just a phase."
And when THAT doesn't work she wil simply say I can't go through with it because we can't afford it.
  •  

SaveMeJeebus

Fab to hear your sister reacted well! :]

I am not too sure what to say about how you wish to tackle telling your mum....

Let us know how it goes. Good luck  ;D
  •  

Ltl89

Awesome to hear about your sister!

You can't predict how anyone will react.  I know that's tough, but it is the reality.  Just make sure you are ready and confident to take everything on and you will do fine.  Good luck :).
  •  

Jennygirl

Be excited about finding yourself and SMILE!

(the best advice I can give for coming out to anyone)
  •