I've had several male doctors. My latest is female. My gynecologist is female. I tried three different therapists - a man and two women. I clicked with the second woman and stayed with her through my transition. My surgeon is a transwoman. I didn't select any of them because of their gender, although I thought I might be more comfortable with a surgeon who was trans herself.
I am generally more comfortable with women, but have no problem talking to men. No, I don't feel more feminine telling my tale to women. In fact, the male doctors were surprisingly understanding.
I think that especially for a therapist, you need to find the one that works for you.
- Kate