I put total Stealth (for over 25 years). But my parents and siblings know, also my partners family. Both families live in the UK, I however do not, I live in another country.
My employer, friends and colleagues, neighbours don't know anything. My birth certificate, passport, driving license all have the correct gender marker showing.
Even my local doctor doesn't know anything, as thankfully I've not had any reason to disclose my history.
When I lived in the UK I was half stealth. My employer and work colleagues and local doctor knew but no one else did around where I was living.
As a transgender woman, I guess I'm fortunate to have been able to get on with my life without being stared at or harassed or worse, but I would've given anything to have just been born normal.