'Family' - I Find it to be Unconscionable, Indeed.

[rhonda13000]

It literally sickens me, but not through sadness....no.

It sickens me with anger and disgust, bordering upon contempt.

"Hearts of Space - 'Sublimation'" - that is soooo.......deep....there is much joy and solace to be had in traversing the universe of mind.....

[shaking her head]

I find it appalling how one would mindlessly and reactively another on the basis of mere superficiality.

Oh no, ladies, you just do not function like that. That is synonymous with hate, not 'morality'.

People appeal to God and His Word as the 'substratum' in a pitifully weak mechanism of substantiation for such behavior, but if they really knew Scripture, they would never even try to appeal to that Perfect Standard.


"Do not judge according to appearance, but judge with righteous judgment." - John 7:24, NKJV

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"And this I pray, that your love may abound still more and more in knowledge and all discernment,..." - Philippians 1:9, NKJV

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"For though by this time you ought to be teachers, you need someone to teach you again the first principles of the oracles of God; and you have come to need milk and not solid food. For everyone who partakes only of milk is unskilled in the word of righteousness, for he is a babe. But solid food belongs to those who are of full age, that is, those who by reason of use have their senses exercised to discern both good and evil." - Hebrews 5:12-14, NKJV [emphasis mine, RCW]

[staring at her pillow, caressing a breast absentmindedly....]

It's a manifestation of hate, it is; God expects far more than such puerile and immature behavior................

thats really heavy duty space music............................incredibly deep........

I don't operate that way; I never have, because you just don't apprehend the entirety nor even a sufficient basis for fair assessment, on the basis of mere superficiality. There is always more there than meets the 'mere' eye.

I mean good grief girls!! LOVE DEMANDS MORE THAN CONTENTMENT WITH THE SUPERFICIAL! 





From both the perspectives of a 'woman of mind' and that of a Christian, it's inexcusable and whether here in the corporeal or eventually when the translation into eternal, spiritual mode of existence occurs via the cessation of the 'mere' corporeal, these will learn that God shares my perception, for such is based upon His Word.

Neither hate nor ignorance is justifiable.

i felt so very feminine and sexy yesterday, as i intently scanned selections from the 'behavioral science' section of "Border's"....that is so heavy, Biosphere......

'programming a powerful computer' - that is, if she succeeds in maintaining her sanity..........

It is unfair nor rationally defensible to cynically and universally condemn the entirety of mankind in this regard and it is actually harmful to the self and that is something that none of us can afford to suffer.

This is simply just another 'bump in the transitional road'. Sure, it hurts, but it serves no purpose to dwell extensively nor mourn about.

My problem however is that such represents another addition in the accrual of..........

RAGE.

[rhonda13000]

People appeal to God and His Word as the 'substratum' in a pitifully weak mechanism of substantiation for such behavior, but if they really knew Scripture, they would never even try to appeal to that Perfect Standard.

We are all sinners Rhonda, some are just better at learning & hypocrisy than others and when it comes right down to it I seriously doubt The Lord is really going to discriminate against one offender (or offense) more than another . . .

Learn to "forgive and forget", all that anger accomplishes absolutely nothing (and try to exhibit a 'lil more acceptance and faith than the rest of them!)

Count Ye Blessings Instead, 

Or incredibly stupid and naive, as I have repeatedly observed in myself through many a year of life.

'C'est la vie' my good sister, 'C'est la vie'.

[rhonda13000]

Or incredibly stupid and naive, as I have repeatedly observed in myself . . .

Well, considering the alternative which is no hope or faith in others at all, what choice do you have really?

Do not allow your trust to be misguided. He is The Only One you can ever truly depend on.

Turn your albeit gorgeous cheek the other way (and try to ignore those who cannot destroy you unless you indeed let them! )

I love you, by the way.

"Battle Damage" - are you familiar with that term, sweetie?   

I wonder if it is written in SOC that a girl must cry a specified quantity of tears as a necessary prerequisite toward the achievement of full transition?   

Their attitudes are inexcusable, dear sister. 

And mine is not born of a despondency of having been rejected. No.

It's a function of the bitterness and rage of a thinking, Christian woman whom has been egregiously wronged.

It's the very principle that angers me.

[Nigella]

Rhonda hi,

Read your post and I feel your anger, yes I agree that such things and attitude's should not exist but I agree that all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God, I included. If we think about the ultimate rejection on the cross the Son of God, cried, "My God, My God, why have you forsaken me?" I find understanding and encouragement in that the Son of God, (Jesus) knows how we/you feel. An high priest interceding for you. Not just empty words but action for you and me so that we turn outward to him and not inward to ourselves. Sorry, I realised I sounded preachy, I did not want to, but rather than anger being like a cancer that eats at our hearts we turn it inside out to become a peace that transcends our understanding, healing instead of harming, peace instead of hate, hope instead of hopelessness.

I hope this was the right place to say these things and apologise to others who may not have a faith.

Big hug and kiss

Nigella

[rhonda13000]

It's the very principle that angers me.

Ouch! That does hurt grievously! I know the pain very well. Principals? You do know most people have none these days and operate according to a very different drummer (and you are definitely speaking/thinking in a totally alien, foreign language right? )

Lord, I trust you keep 'em to yourself! How strange of you indeed! 

I just shake my head over it all, honey.

Color me possessed of cognitive rigidity or whatever: It's the PRINCIPLE which angers and embitters me.

But there is a decided advantage to such a state of cognitive core principal: It certainly does mitigate or even obviates the pain and hurt of perceived rejection.........

But not by much......

[Nigella]

I just shake my head over it all, honey.

Color me possessed of cognitive rigidity or whatever: It's the PRINCIPLE which angers and embitters me.

But there is a decided advantage to such a state of cognitive core principal: It certainly does mitigate or even obviates the pain and hurt of perceived rejection.........

But not by much......


I understand Rhonda, someone nearly made me give up on trying to find a way forward with my GID for me and I find peoples attitudes even in the transgender community sometimes staggering and incomprehensible. I know its not family but it still makes me sad and feel like giving up.

I have to carry on the best way I can Rhonda so cling on and have the hope that is not the kind that the world has but the kind that God gives.

hugs and kisses

Nigella

[melissa90299]

Or incredibly stupid and naive, as I have repeatedly observed in myself . . .

Well, considering the alternative which is no hope or faith in others at all, what choice do you have really?

Do not allow your trust to be misguided. He is The Only One you can ever truly depend on.

Turn your albeit gorgeous cheek the other way (and try to ignore those who cannot destroy you unless you indeed let them! )




Ummm...that would be She

[Ms.Behavin]

Having grown up in the bible belt, I was always too scared that I was evil.  Then I realized that God made me this way.  Who am I to question God.  While I have found some narrow conservitive christian thinking (Typical right wing..If you don't believe, act and watch the same tv shows as us, your a heathen), I have found a few enlightened souls,  one who said just before my Jaw hit the floor, "Jesus accepted everyone, So I should too".  Wow, that was from one of my co-workers.  Wish more thought that way.

You know people believe what they believe,  takes all kinds to make the world work.  It would be a very boring place if everyone was like you or me.


Take care

Beni

[rhonda13000]

You know people believe what they believe,  takes all kinds to make the world work.  It would be a very boring place if everyone was like you or me.

I gently and with love, beg to differ with you, sis.

"All kinds" does not include within its scope those who cherish hate, ignorance, cruelty, bigotry, irrationality, error over Truth and intellectual laziness.

The world has no need of such, hon.   

[Ms.Behavin]

Prehaps not, but there seems to be an over abbundence of them anyway.  So why would god allow such narrow minded folks to exist.  that is the question.

Beni

[rhonda13000]

Prehaps not, but there seems to be an over abbundence of them anyway.  So why would god allow such narrow minded folks to exist.  that is the question.

Beni

We sometimes pay for the abuse of the freedom of choice which He has allowed all of us to have.

But what is done to us in malevolence and hatred does not at all escape His notice; these will recompensed by Him.

Romans 12:19.

[rhonda13000]

You're insane [I somehow felt a connection with you].

[seriously]

Romans 12:19 - There is a great deal of comfort in that verse.....God will recompense, ultimately.

Revenge is....destructive to the mind and spirit; for the sake of one's emotional and spiritual survival, it is far healthier to leave such in God's hands. Let Him deal with it.

He will do a far better job of it, anyway.

[rhonda13000]

. . .  for the sake of one's emotional and spiritual survival, it is far healthier to leave such in God's hands.

Exactly! Or The Bears! Same Thing really - lol - somehow I do not think the bear has any emotional or spiritual handicaps or hangups to deal with, do you? 

You know I just told somebody here, you find it 'cause it was also in a backhanded sort of way, that I Love You too! 

thank you honey. i really needed to hear that right now [crying again; why am i so prone to this??].   

[Hazumu]

I remember a short story written by Harlan Ellison in the anthology Stalking the Nightmare, titled "Blank..."

Interstellar space travel is made possible by adepts who cause the ship to teleport to the destination, leaving themselves behind in space to be picked up by a tender ship that follows the launch of the transport to orbit and then returns the 'driver' to the planet.  Enter a criminal so evil, he's been handed a 1000-year sentence. He kidnaps a driver and forces her to pilot and aid his escape (and reducing her right arm to a cinder with a weapon)

She achieves retribution by setting up an endless loop of the ship materializing in a sun, then, the barest instant before death teleporting away -- only to materialize in a sun...

But we will never know what God's retribution is, or even if the tormentors ever receive any retribution upon death.

Karen