Well one don't be frightened of going into a hair salon and saying you are TG and need help. I did, their jaws dropped and they then went full bored to help.
For you just my opinion.
Lose the parting, go for a asymmetrical fringe, gives high lights to our face and makes you look sexy and different. You have a natural wave, use it, change the colour to light auburn, have high lights of a deeper red or, if brave, a very light red/orange/pink.
You have nice hair and a pretty face so use your facial curves to your advantage.