Joanna, I agree with the others that your bone structure is fine. You have a feminine face, but I agree with the rhinoplasty assessment too, but feminize it a bit because the rest of your face IS quite delicate. Your selfies are almost always unflattering by either angles, lighting or both. I also think that getting laser hair removal will help in more ways than you can even realize right now. I don't and wouldn't leave the house without makeup. You're a girl, Joanna, so get the de-transitioning crap out of your mind!!! In 2005 I finally broke down to my primary care doc that I'm transgendered and he sent me to an endocrinologist, who promptly put me on a small regimen of estrogen, but after two months I quit, which upset her greatly. She told me she'd had many TS patients and I was probably the most dysphoric of any she'd had, so she told me I'd eventually be back, either to her or someone else. Then she posed a question: "Since I know you'll be back, how many years will you waste before you're back?" She was sooo right and I wasted six years of time I can never get back and which turned out to be even worse than those wasted decades before. I finally actually attempted suicide for the third time, after trying it on the installment plan for those six wasted years. I've been happy for the vast majority of my 29 months of living as a woman since September 7th, 2011. Don't even think about detransitioning, Joanna, you'll never pass as a male! You already look female, but you'll look immeasurably better with your hair longer or however you WANT to wear it, facial hair removal, makeup and rhinoplasty, and with those things, confidence. You're not ugly now, you could just be prettier with what you've already mentioned and with more time on hormones. You're a good, sweet, intelligent and caring woman on top of all the rest. How can you possibly think you're going to wind up alone and lonely? You're a catch, girl! Hugs, Mira
