"SatinJoy you have all my prayers. You are a very strong woman to be able to handle things the way you have, and accept what you've accepted. You are very much stronger than I. Your post moved me a little, and let me see how lucky I am that I can go forward at my age. I wish you and your family the best.
Ally" What a beautiful post!!!!!!!!!!
Prayers answered, and the compliment is well appreciated. A whole lot of good stuff unlocked in therapy yesterday, most if not all of the fear is gone, and I am resting now in being comfortable and happy and honest, and a little sad that others cannot accept. Trans to me is something you can't really hide from yourself in outside garments, it is a state of body and mind. Regardless of how I look, even stealth, I am transwoman, I was born this way for a reason, and I want to and I do take joy in it. It sorrows me that others cannot accept it and want to remove it. But that is no longer so much of my immediate family, only one can't handle it, and she has a mental disorder that I can accomodate for her sake. Not her fault, not rigid ideas, it is a security issue for her, she can't handle the change when I've been a rock getting her through the pain of an anxiety disorder, and a bad one at that.
I finally showed my true self to one of my other daughters today, one that accepts. It was great. Her first comment - wow you look so happy. Her second - Hey you look just like the girl in the Mummy, the lead. Now that my dear is one heck of a compliment, I think she is a beautiful woman, and that makes me a beautiful transwoman.
Thank you for your prayers. I need them, fear destabilizes me, but there has been so much growth and acceptance and I get less and less fear and more and more peace and joy.
Thanks everyone for your support. It gets hard sometimes.
My daughter thinks I'm beautiful. OMG. What a way to start a day out.
No its not too late. But it takes a lot of help from very competent people to handle transitioning or even coping at all.
God Bless, hugs and encouragement to all as we try to meet both our needs and the needs of those who love us.
Satinjoy.