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do you dress to blend in or dress to set things on fire

Started by stephaniec, February 12, 2014, 07:54:45 PM

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stephaniec

I planning to go full time this summer because I think or hope the hormones will have worked enough, I'm planning on blouses and skirts mostly and jeans. I going for the slightly conservative look. Just interested how every one else approaches style.
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FalseHybridPrincess

I really like the jeans /shirts combo  thats what im doing now but also have jackets cause its still a little cold...

but on summer if my body is ok I would also like to wear cute dresses /skirts and stuff...
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Just Shelly

I'm a jeans and nice top kind of girl....sometimes a basic T ....they have one called my favorite T from Old Navy, it as about 10 small buttons that come down to form a V. I like only V necks and scoop necks...though this winter I have worn my turtle necks quite often.....they look really good with a scarf or a chunky necklace!! Oh and I love there skinny jeans called Rock Star

http://oldnavy.gap.com/browse/product.do?cid=99085&vid=1&pid=939803002
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Jessica Merriman

Quote from: FalsePrincess on February 12, 2014, 07:56:33 PM
I really like the jeans /shirts combo  thats what im doing now but also have jackets cause its still a little cold...

but on summer if my body is ok I would also like to wear cute dresses /skirts and stuff...
This definitely! False Princess nailed it good. :)
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Tristan

To blend in. These country club events lately that's kind of the point from what I have noticed
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stephaniec

Quote from: Just Shelly on February 12, 2014, 08:12:56 PM
I'm a jeans and nice top kind of girl....sometimes a basic T ....they have one called my favorite T from Old Navy, it as about 10 small buttons that come down to form a V. I like only V necks and scoop necks...though this winter I have worn my turtle necks quite often.....they look really good with a scarf or a chunky necklace!! Oh and I love there skinny jeans called Rock Star

http://oldnavy.gap.com/browse/product.do?cid=99085&vid=1&pid=939803002
those are nice
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Teela Renee

I try to dress my age/lifestyle. So I stick to mostly printed t's and jeans, I wear skirts and long dress's occasionally. Skirts, a dress top and shawl sometimes with flats when trying to look professional.
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Joanna Dark

I wear cute open necked form-fitting tops with skinny jeans. Some have holes; some don't. My fave pair of skinnies is a light purple denim  with knee holes. They are more capri than skinny jean but I'd call them a hybrid. I wear keds and ballet flats plus carry a duffle. (A large canvas purse).

Lately i've been accessorizing and building my wardrobe more. I have this gray faded romper that I just got the last thing I need for: a cute, lightweight leather jacket. I also got this LBD with a cute print and a plunging neckline that I hope to rock. I can't wait for warmer weather. I have this men's pea coat and I get sir'd a lot and then  I look at them and they profusely apologize. AWKWARD. I'm conviced it's the coat and my guy wants to buy me a new one. he says it's def the reason.
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Joan

I try to dress my age but I don't want to look a mess, so it's cardigans and full, pleated or A line knee length skirts, sometimes tailored jackets, but definitely conservative stuff.

I bought some skinny jeans last weekend, but I'm not sure I have the courage to wear them out :D
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Joan

Stephanie, it occurred to me that if you went back over these very interesting threads that you put up and and statistically analyzed each member's responses to your questions you'd probably have enough material for a couple of solid research papers on attitudes and preferences of transgendered individuals :D
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Miss_Bungle1991

I dress very boring and very bland. It's cheaper that way. Plain tops in darker, solid colors (except for the shirts with Dotty and Portia on them), jeans, sneakers.
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JLT1

I'm a 6'1" girl.  Where on this planet would I actually blend in?

I try to dress in such a way that I own the look.  The look is me.  That can be jeans and a sweater, it can be woman's business attire or even a formal dress.  But owning the look is the key.

Really takes time to shop though....

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Teela Renee

Quote from: JLT1 on February 12, 2014, 10:12:17 PM
I'm a 6'1" girl.  Where on this planet would I actually blend in?

I try to dress in such a way that I own the look.  The look is me.  That can be jeans and a sweater, it can be woman's business attire or even a formal dress.  But owning the look is the key.

Really takes time to shop though....

Hugs,

Jen

come to nw indiana, You would fit in with me 6'1  and most of the girls who attend the local colleges ect ect. most of the girls in my area are 5'7 - 6'2
RedNeck girls have all the fun 8)
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Danielle Sherry

Love this question! At this point it's to burn "the guy" down.

Danielle is pissed. "The guy" stuck her in a dark closet for thirty years and basically ruined her life .. and she's coming out with a vengeance! It's been about two months since she's gotten out of the closet and she's put the world on notice. Within a time-span of only two months I've come out to my family, lost 35 lbs, grew my hair passed the tops of my ears (blown out girlie-style everyday  :laugh: ), women's underwear, stockings, mascara and pink lipstick everyday. Danielle has nearly completely killed "the guy". I say nearly because I think she's planning just a little torturer for "the guy" (Thailand-style) just before she buries him.
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Nicolet J.

I have a very small wardrobe. As of right now I mixed both my guy clothes and my girl clothes. Granted the guy close I have could be considered androgynous. I am really looking forward to summer. At work I plan on wearing mostly Capri pants. Outside of work I hope I can wear short leggings and a skirt and some kind of cute shirt. :-) anything that's nice, that covers my knees. Ha ha
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Eva Marie

I'm a wee bit too old to go for setting things on fire, although my inner teenager still relishes the very short skirt that's packed away somewhere  :laugh:

I go for what I like to think of as classy casual - the kinds of clothes that a woman my age with a youthful attitude might wear. I can get away with wearing skinny jeans, and I pair that with some kind of nice top or sweater, and heels or wedges, or boots if the weather is yucky. Some days I might put on some earrings but most days I don't bother. I don't want to stand out, but if someone notices me I want to be dressed tastefully. I prefer 1/2 or 3/4 length sleeves to help disguise my shoulders.

I wore a above the knee skirt out once and it gave me the willies for some reason. I haven't had the courage to try that again.

Dresses are usually a no go because of my upper body build. If I get them large enough to fit up top they are too big on the bottom.
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oh hai!

Until I don't have a tucking issue any longer, I dress age-appropriately and rather modestly. I likely won't become racier after surgery - just wear nicer and more form-fitting attire.

I do dream of a nice one-piece beach/swimming suit though. And the goods to deliver in them  ;)
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TerriT

Quote from: gowiththeflow on February 12, 2014, 08:34:32 PM
To blend in. These country club events lately that's kind of the point from what I have noticed

What do you mean?

For me, once I started going out in public, I basically purged my entire wardrobe of collected crap and set about building something to be proud of. Some of the stuff I had was just plain stupid. I don't dress to stand out, but I do try to follow fashion trends. Right now every girl I see us wearing black leggings, tunic tops and boots. It's like the uniform or something. So I wear those kinds if clothes. I stick with jeans though. I mostly stick with Anthropology, Free People, Lucky and a lot if that boho chic type stuff. But that's what the girls I admire are wearing. I guess that means I'm trying to blend in for where I am. I would never wear a mini leather skirt with a halter and 6 inch heals. But hey, whatever works for you.

So I guess I just try to blend in with what I consider to be the contemporary fashionable girls my age.
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Tristan

Tiffany I was just saying lately I have noticed blending in with these wealthy people means dressing like them which is normally county club attire
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barbie

Whatever I wear, I become noticeable.  Based on my height and body shape alone, all of my acquaintances recognize me very well while I run outdoors wearing sunglasses, hat and mask. Even one of my former colleagues, who happened to be at Frankfurt airport, recognized and called me from the back. There were so many tall girls and all kinds of ethnic groups and body shapes in the airport.  We did not know or expect that each other is traveling abroad.

I prefer juniors' style, although my biological age is far greater.
The following skirt is my favorite fashion item, and I am wearing it right now, although it's winter.



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