Well, things improved very quickly...a month ago I was in tears and feeling like crap because I had no job, not even a minimum wage one would call me back...as of today I have TWO jobs lol. The hours are flexible, but I plan to work 7 days a week whenever possible until I can pay for surgery. And they aren't minimum wage, I'm going to be able to save at least $1000 a month, more if I go 7 days a week.
And needless to say, it was a huge self-esteem boost when they both expressed genuine enthusiasm at my education and experience. I've had to disclose my past to one because of the police check, she seemed very surprised and goes "so, you're not becoming a woman anymore? I can put you in as male?" Lol. As for the second, we will find out what they think of that. They're young so it will probably be OK.
The bad news is that part of the job is working with violent people.