I think possibly the term
'crush' holds different meaning to various people and so now the term has become confusing for me

There are gals here that I hold a deep and sincere sisterly love and respect for, but having a crush on someone means something different for me
I tend to think the term crush means that someone is attracted to another person they wish to date and possibly have sexual relationships with
Susan's Place is not a dating site, but I often see people posting about various romantic ideals, possibly it is only in jest to flatter another?
Possibly I am misunderstanding the term?