While in Thailand, I ate in outdoor cafes where they cook right in front of you, fist they all have really well seasoned woks, they use very little oil and only fry the rice for about a minute or two. The Thai fried rice is a lot different than the greasy American version.
The type of rice makes a BIG difference, my preference is Thai Jasmine, really large long grain, it is soooooo good, you don't need butter or anything, it is just soooooo tasty in its own! If you want a sticky rice, simply add more water. This is not rocket science, stay off the interent while cooking night be rule number one!