Penetration- What was it like?

[Gina_Z]

The first time you were penetrated by a man. What was your experience like?

[Jenna Marie]

Haven't been with a man and most likely won't be. But I wouldn't be much help anyway - I keep trying to think of ways I could have explained it to my pre-op self, and I can't. It involves sensations and nerve endings that I just didn't have context for.

[mrs izzy]

I keep trying to think of ways I could have explained it to my pre-op self, and I can't. It involves sensations and nerve endings that I just didn't have context for.

Ya what she said.
Same if the question was how does it feel when they remove the stint. There is no words, you have to experience it to know.

Izzy

[Gina_Z]

I guess I'll just have to experience it for myself then. 

[Jennygirl]

I'm curious, too

[noleen111]

I have being penetrated by a man anally.. and it was weird at first... but I got use to too.. it was actually amazing.. you feel so empty when he pulls out..

I have not yet being penetrated via my vagina.. i am working on that lol..

[Northern Jane]

There are no words that can possibly describe it! Even in discussions with other women, it just doesn't seem possible.

Let me just say that the first time it happened for me was a memorable experience LOL!

[big kim]

Scary,a bit painful then really enjoyable!I was 5 and a half years post op which sounds a bit strange but I wanted to do it with someone special

[Mirian]

Said with all my honesty: if you LOVE that man, then it's the most beautiful thing of this universe.
If you don't, then there's no difference from inserting or removing your stent, dilator or any such thing.
Well, actually there's one little difference: you can still play with a dildo or other object having nice
fantasies and so you can still enjoy that, but if you're with a guy you don't love or like, hardly you can
have any fantasies at all :b There's no "pleasure button" if your mind doesn't cooperate, and that yelds
true for everybody, genetic or not.

[calico]

First time?  Painful, hurt for 10 to 15 minutes than started to start to feel good,  and got better every time after.  Intercourse for me after surgery is amazing and impossible to completely describe,  and at times leaves me giggling.  Just amazing

[Ms Grace]

I asked my first girlfriend the exact same question. She thought it was a weird question!  But I was going nuts with curiosity and being the person doing the penetrating wasn't all that interesting to me. Of course she then asked me what it was like to penetrate a woman I didn't have much of an answer for her.

[mandonlym]

Ahhhhh it's just.... so much pleasure. It was so unexpected for me, this life. I was a super-academic nerd pre-transition who only had penetrative sex a couple of times as a man. So to emerge out of transition as a super-sexual woman is craaaaaazy.

My first bf post-op was a massage therapist. He offered me a coupon for a free massage and I went to his studio, which was in a big loft in San Francisco. As he was massaging me he admitted that he got the coupons made just so he could give me one.

So hmmm.... the first time. There was the weight, the meeting of bodies you don't quite get any other way. There was the tightness, as though you're being ripped apart and then all of a sudden your body opens up when you realize he's not trying to break you but make you feel whole. And as he moves around he rubs against your clit and you gasp because it's like your whole body is being touched just on that one spot. Then you climax and realize you can just keep doing that, over and over.

Ok I'm out of town this weekend you guys so I can't hump my bf. This is unfair!

[FrancisAnn]

I was maybe age 15 or so. I was feminine & always attracted to boys. This boy had a large thick penis & at first it was painful some until he finally moved inside me then it felt great. Now later in life it still feels great for a man to be inside me anally. It just feels so good to feel a erect penis inside my body & for him to go slow so I can realx & fully enjoy the sensation. I so hope one day I can fully enjoy a man inside my normal depth vagina. That should feel even nicer.

[abbyFlame]

Fascinating topic. This is directed at the girls who had anal pre-op, are anal orgasms and vaginal orgasms similar in any way?

[Jennygirl]

Ahhhhh it's just.... so much pleasure. It was so unexpected for me, this life. I was a super-academic nerd pre-transition who only had penetrative sex a couple of times as a man. So to emerge out of transition as a super-sexual woman is craaaaaazy.

My first bf post-op was a massage therapist. He offered me a coupon for a free massage and I went to his studio, which was in a big loft in San Francisco. As he was massaging me he admitted that he got the coupons made just so he could give me one.

So hmmm.... the first time. There was the weight, the meeting of bodies you don't quite get any other way. There was the tightness, as though you're being ripped apart and then all of a sudden your body opens up when you realize he's not trying to break you but make you feel whole. And as he moves around he rubs against your clit and you gasp because it's like your whole body is being touched just on that one spot. Then you climax and realize you can just keep doing that, over and over.

Ok I'm out of town this weekend you guys so I can't hump my bf. This is unfair!

wow

I am really excited.

[@Diana]

i was 20 , it was painful & not fun lol

[mandonlym]

I am really excited.

Ha! I am too! My current bf is sooooo good in bed and I'm traveling this weekend. Gah!

[LizMarie]

Even at my age, these descriptions make me giggle and wonder.

[mandonlym]

Now I'm back in town but bf is being a lighting assistant for a show that opens tomorrow so I can't see him until tomorrow night. Ahhhh!!!! So I'm just going to talk about some of the things that make him so good in bed...

First I love how I can be so honest with him, so he knows me better than anyone I've been with. Like, he asked me because I've been with women what might be the difference between me and cis women sexually. And I told him my funny quirk that I don't self-lubricate unless I'm looking, but I'm mostly stimulated by just feeling, so the visual stimulation is kind of a holdover from my male self.

So then the last time we had sex it was just old-fashioned missionary and it felt so good. It's new (three months or so), and we haven't gotten to that stage where we need variation; it's just either him on top or me on top. He's so good at being able to tell when I'm at my peak, and then taking me off the edge.

This last time, as I was just about , maybe five seconds from coming, he suddenly whispered seductively in my ear, "Don't forget to open your eyes," which to me said so much. It's like, he wants to maximize my pleasure but also acknowledge I'm different and he's not only supportive, but fully accepts me for who I am. And so I did open my eyes, and we came while we stared into each other's eyes and that was also sensational.

He does a lot of other things really well but my favorite is definitely the things he says in bed.