I use a 5" Mr Limpy, and I feel like if someone touched it accidentally through my clothes it would feel fake. Also, this packer is pretty big for a guy my size, so I find it most comfortable to let it run down my thigh. That being said, sometimes if I'm not careful about placement you can see it pretty much. I'm wondering if this is the case with cis guys too? One time I was playing cards with my friends and a couple of them started giggling so I said What? And one said "um, whatya got going on down there?" And when I looked down you could see the outline of my packer's shaft. Does that happen with cis guys too, or are theirs too squishy to do that? I was wearing kind of thin cargo shorts, but if you understand what I tried to describe would a cis guy's only be visible with an erection or flaccid?