post operative vagina

[nicolegn7]

I think the best way to handle this is to do it with a man you trust and ask his honest opinion. Does it feel different? Would he know? Etc, thats what I am planning on doing.

[Michelle-G]

My BF has been with me since before GRS so he was ready fir the experience. Yeah, though, I am tight. Still tight after 17 months post-op.

But that's the best answer. Sleep with people you trust and leave the excuses behind.

[nicolegn7]

Isn't dilation basically sex?

[Jenna Marie]

Sex can substitute for dilation... but the dilation regimen is not the same as sex in terms of motion, or usually timing.

[ImagineKate]

Thank you that is exactly what I was asking. If you get married, but you do not bleed the first time... It will be kind of hard to explain.

You do plan on telling him you're trans, right? I mean before marriage, not on the first date. Set the proper expectations and you'll be fine. Marriage is about trust.

[Nicole]

A lot of cis girls don't bleed the first time they have sex so I wouldn't worry about that.