The Official 'Do I pass?' topic (Ver 5.0 - in 3-D)

[Nathanos]

You still look a lot like a girl.  However, those tops, nose ring, lip ring, and necklace do not help your cause. They are too feminine.

The top isn't my usual attire, my girlfriend chose it for me at H&M in the men's section. Most of my shirts are usually band merch. I don't have much of a fashion sense. I appreciate your honesty, though. Do you have any suggestions for what would suit me better?
I only recently started wearing that necklace, I just really like it because it's Thor's hammer. The piercings.. I don't see myself parting with, but I appreciate your input on that as well. 😊

You look like any other cute guy too me and I love that shirt you're wearing.

Thank you! 😊 It has one of my favourite animals on it, raccoons are cute.

You look both male and stylin' to me.

Thank you, that means a lot to me. 😁 My dysphoria has been on high alert lately.

You pass as androgynous to masculine with the new haircut.

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Thank you. I might go shorter next time. I just didn't want to go too short initially or else I think I would've shocked myself a bit. My hair was to my shoulders when I got it cut. 😭 I just wanna look like Cole Sprouse tbh, I love his hair so much.

[GammaHunter]

Sooo since my last post, I've changed A LOT, and I was wondering what you think of my new look?

http://i.imgur.com/g0SXu7q.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/Mgietd3.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/x2hGl3K.jpg

I'm going for a more androgynous look, so do you think it's working?

[Elis]

Sooo since my last post, I've changed A LOT, and I was wondering what you think of my new look?

http://i.imgur.com/g0SXu7q.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/Mgietd3.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/x2hGl3K.jpg

I'm going for a more androgynous look, so do you think it's working?

Definitely; you look 100% male

[TransAm]

Sooo since my last post, I've changed A LOT, and I was wondering what you think of my new look?

http://i.imgur.com/g0SXu7q.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/Mgietd3.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/x2hGl3K.jpg

I'm going for a more androgynous look, so do you think it's working?

You're essentially the definition of androgyny to me. I struggle to see a male or a female when I look at your pictures; I find my eyes darting to the typical 'telltale' characteristics to no avail. On one hand, you look like a lot of the skinny goth/skater guys I went to HS with and yet, on the other hand, you also look like a couple of the goth/emo/whatever the **** the kids are saying these days girls.

The first image is the most feminine, the second is the most masculine and the third is a blend.

[lionheart]

You still look a lot like a girl.  However, those tops, nose ring, lip ring, and necklace do not help your cause. They are too feminine.

I disagree. I think those tend to be more masculine piercings. However, and maybe it's just the lighting, but it looks like you're wearing some makeup in those pictures? If so, I wouldn't say it's exactly helping your cause.

I look super young generally, but was wondering if I passed in either of these two pics? Also, I'm not good at taking photos of myself, so excuse the angles and facial expressions! Cheers, Noah

You pass with flying colors in the first picture. In the second one, I would say you still pass, but lean a little more towards androgynous and look younger.

[Nathanos]

I know I probably post on this thread way too much, but I'm hoping by now that perhaps I'm passing better. I have a job interview today and I am very scared of being "clocked", so some honest opinions would be appreciated. I worry about my face looking too round and "girly", as it's what I've been told for so much of my life now.
The last picture will be how I look at my interview later.. minus the storm trooper tie, I'm definitely switching that out. 😅

[arice]

I know I probably post on this thread way too much, but I'm hoping by now that perhaps I'm passing better. I have a job interview today and I am very scared of being "clocked", so some honest opinions would be appreciated. I worry about my face looking too round and "girly", as it's what I've been told for so much of my life now.
The last picture will be how I look at my interview later.. minus the storm trooper tie, I'm definitely switching that out. 😅

You definitely pass in the first two pictures. In the last picture, I'd say you look androgynous to masculine so passing will have more to do with behaviour and voice. Your hair looks more feminine in the last picture than in the others. I don't see a lot of guys with bangs like that here. That could be different where you are.

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[Elis]

I know I probably post on this thread way too much, but I'm hoping by now that perhaps I'm passing better. I have a job interview today and I am very scared of being "clocked", so some honest opinions would be appreciated. I worry about my face looking too round and "girly", as it's what I've been told for so much of my life now.
The last picture will be how I look at my interview later.. minus the storm trooper tie, I'm definitely switching that out. 😅

You look like a feminine guy to me and definitely not female. I agree that  behaviour and voice will make a huge difference passing wise for your interview.

I don't get why you're switching out the stormtrooper tie; it looks awesome

[Moomin]

You look like a young attractive man to me Nathanos!, nothing girly at all. I love the tie and the Slipknot Tshirt, but I can see why maybe not the tie for a job interview lol. Good luck!

You pass just fine Lionheart! I looove the shirt, bow tie and waistcoat look! I agree you look younger in the second pic, but still pass to me!

[CodexUmbrae]

I know I probably post on this thread way too much, but I'm hoping by now that perhaps I'm passing better. I have a job interview today and I am very scared of being "clocked", so some honest opinions would be appreciated. I worry about my face looking too round and "girly", as it's what I've been told for so much of my life now.
The last picture will be how I look at my interview later.. minus the storm trooper tie, I'm definitely switching that out. 😅

To me, you pass, really fine. Congrats! Great style, btw. The tie is cool but yeah, maybe not the best option for a job interview. I hope that interview went well. c:

And I wouldn't say that you have a round and "girly" face, actually.

[patrick1967]

Interesting experience at work today. I work in retail and have quite a few regular customers. i had a new customer at the desk that i was helping out and as he left the regular behind him in line stepped up laughing. "Damn, he called you Sir. Must be the hair" He stood there shaking his head as I chuckled and replied "Not the first time, and it certinly won't be the last" I don't think I am even close to passing but I guess to ppl that don't know me ...

[Dena]

Facial structure and the shorter hair make it near impossible to see anything feminine in your appearance. I don't know about the voice but I would have to gender you male as well.

[patrick1967]

LOL. Is it inappropriate to say I love you Dena. The voice was low to begin with and I consistently get Sir on the phone from people who have not heard the increased drop daily. Thank you, I needed to hear that

[lil_red]

6 months on t

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[Deborah]

I don't think I am even close to passing but I guess to ppl that don't know me ...

From the picture you pass as well as many CIS guys I know.  If you aren't passing right now then it's something other than the way you look that's giving you away.


It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not.
André Gide, Autumn Leaves

[Elis]

6 months on t

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You definitely look like you're getting there; you look more male than female. I was the same at 6 months and didn't look totally manly until 8 months on T.

[lil_red]

You definitely look like you're getting there; you look more male than female. I was the same at 6 months and didn't look totally manly until 8 months on T.

Thanks Elis. I'm definately loving the way my body is starting to look.  I can't walk by a mirror anymore without stopping to admire the changes, lol.

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[Nina_Ottawa]

I know I probably post on this thread way too much, but I'm hoping by now that perhaps I'm passing better. I have a job interview today and I am very scared of being "clocked", so some honest opinions would be appreciated. I worry about my face looking too round and "girly", as it's what I've been told for so much of my life now.
The last picture will be how I look at my interview later.. minus the storm trooper tie, I'm definitely switching that out. 😅



Dude! You look awesome. I'm a fan of tats (8 myself) and piercings (7).
Seeing your pics, and all the guys here remind me of when I was in Montreal recovery house following my surgery. There were three guys - all in their early 20s. I was like "what are these guys doing here?" They all had that handsome scruff, cool hair...peed me off a bit lol how awesome they were.
Super jealous!

[KarlMars]

I know I probably post on this thread way too much, but I'm hoping by now that perhaps I'm passing better. I have a job interview today and I am very scared of being "clocked", so some honest opinions would be appreciated. I worry about my face looking too round and "girly", as it's what I've been told for so much of my life now.
The last picture will be how I look at my interview later.. minus the storm trooper tie, I'm definitely switching that out. 😅

I think you look like a teenage boy. Are you on T yet?

[Nathanos]

I think you look like a teenage boy. Are you on T yet?

Believe it or not, yes. I've been on it since March 9, 2016. I made this comparison photo just last night.



Those pictures were taken a year apart. January of 2016, when I was pre-T, to just the other day of this month.
I'm built relatively small, so I don't feel that helps my case. I think I may be better off once I start growing some facial hair, but it's still too patchy for my tastes currently and I have no interesting in rocking a chin strap. 🙄
I'm hoping maybe I can start bulking up and that'll help me out. One can only hope.