What are you thinking? 9.0

[Jenny07]

Nice to see you so well Anna, it's has been a while.
Missed you.

Now just let me get some sauce.

[Anna++]

omg Anna, I remember you from a while back - when I saw your avatar just now I was like "I know that face, I know that name..." I was trying to put my finger on it and then I fully remembered! Wow, you have changed a lot, you look absolutely amazing.

Nice to see you again, Anna. 

Nice to see you so well Anna, it's has been a while.
Missed you.

Thanks!  I had a good break from the forums, but it's nice to be back .

Now just let me get some sauce.

NOOOO!!!  Penguins aren't for eating!

[Jayne]

7 O'clock should only happen once a day
My mum picked me up at 7:30 am today to take me to the gender clinic, they phoned at 8:30 to say my Dr had phoned in sick...
I almost broke down in tears in the supermarket when my mum took me shopping later, I made my excuses and went out for some "fresh air".
My gp phoned later to say my old GIC are still not responding to his calls & e-mails so he still can't do my t blocker jab that's 2 months overdue.
For some strange reason I'm feeling a bit grumpy

[Mariah]

I'm do for a fill and an a manicure.
Mariah

[DragonBeer]

These small boxer briefs are comfy! Why didn't I buy mens underwear sooner?

[LordKAT]

Hugs Jayne.

I'm thinking you have good cause to feel grumpy.

[immortal gypsy]

My boss is still clueless. I'm not really looking forward to next week, having to change my name at work.

Well it will be one way to make sure he understands

[Mariah]

Good luck. Go in with your head held high because you can do it. Telling my boss wasn't the easiest thing to do, but it went over much easier than I would have ever thought it would. Hopefully he surprises you and things go smoother and easier than your thinking. Hugs

My boss is still clueless. I'm not really looking forward to next week, having to change my name at work.

Well it will be one way to make sure he understands

[immortal gypsy]

Good luck. Go in with your head held high because you can do it. Telling my boss wasn't the easiest thing to do, but it went over much easier than I would have ever thought it would. Hopefully he surprises you and things go smoother and easier than your thinking. Hugs

Oh I originally told him last year. He can be sweet but (lots and lots of censored words) clueless. Thats what makes this so frustrating. Even others and myself using correct pronouns to describe me usually get a WHAT!

"Hey boss these are actual boobs I have"

[Mariah]

What can I say but that's some men for you. Sometimes they are just completely clueless. It makes me wonder if they just choose to be that way or it's being done intentionally. In that case kill him with kindness and don't be afraid to refresh his memory as needed. Hugs

Oh I originally told him last year. He can be sweet but (lots and lots of censored words) clueless. Thats what makes this so frustrating. Even others and myself using correct pronouns to describe me usually get a WHAT!

[CalmRage]

i wish i knew why i can't bring myself to leave this place.

[immortal gypsy]

While I'm not sure I want my nephew to call me aunty, but for him to know I'm his aunty would be nice.

Does that make sense?

[Mariah]

Yes it does. My 17 year old niece knows that I'm her Aunt and respects me enough to not call me Uncle while I'm not asking or expecting her to call me Aunt either. It would kind of feel weird and would take getting used to. I hope that your nephew is eventually told your his Aunt for both your sakes. It's sad especially when parents exclude child relatives from us just because we are transitioning.
Mariah

While I'm not sure I want my nephew to call me aunty, but for him to know I'm his aunty would be nice.

Does that make sense?

[Adam (birkin)]

I told someone about my past today. I don't really know why. I just...was telling a story and it seemed relevant that I was a female at the time, so I told her. She's a cool girl and was good about it, but in retrospect I can't understand why I told her. I don't feel good about having disclosed. I think it was a boundary thing. I have REALLY tight boundaries around my transition, and who I tell, but it's like for a moment I forgot where I stand on the whole thing and felt almost obligated to disclose.

I know she won't spread it around but that's not the point.

[immortal gypsy]

Yes it does. My 17 year old niece knows that I'm her Aunt and respects me enough to not call me Uncle while I'm not asking or expecting her to call me Aunt either. It would kind of feel weird and would take getting used to. I hope that your nephew is eventually told your his Aunt for both your sakes. It's sad especially when parents exclude child relatives from us just because we are transitioning.
Mariah

He is very young (4), and I've seen more lately then before. It's more do you know I'm your mum's sister, not her friend. I could ask her but umm, don't think I'm ready for confirmation or disappointed yet.

[CalmRage]

i can't get this song out of my head.....

[MyKa]

8th valentines day I will be spending alone tomorrow :/ idk def not as hard as spending Christmas alone but still

[LordKAT]

8th valentines day I will be spending alone tomorrow :/ idk def not as hard as spending Christmas alone but still

My 7th, since we are alone together, perhaps we are not really alone.

[Ally_B]

I want out of this town. I want out. I want out. I want out. I want out....

[Rainbow Dash]

I told someone about my past today. I don't really know why. I just...was telling a story and it seemed relevant that I was a female at the time, so I told her. She's a cool girl and was good about it, but in retrospect I can't understand why I told her. I don't feel good about having disclosed. I think it was a boundary thing. I have REALLY tight boundaries around my transition, and who I tell, but it's like for a moment I forgot where I stand on the whole thing and felt almost obligated to disclose.

I know she won't spread it around but that's not the point.

I'm actually surprised you did that. However, you are a good judge of character. And its great she was so positive about it, right? Don't be too hard on yourself. It wont be the last time it happens I'm sure.

I'm going home for 2 weeks. Hopefully I can schedule an interview if my  FAST pass is approved. Then I can go  and see what its like in Canada. There is a couple of things there I want to see.