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Story Research; MTF Trans-Women: What sexual partners do you prefer?

Started by AnnaSiciliana, October 03, 2014, 08:23:43 AM

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I get turned on by...

mostly cis-women
22 (18.5%)
mostly cis-men
27 (22.7%)
mostly trans-women
1 (0.8%)
mostly trans-men
0 (0%)
both cis-men and cis-women
11 (9.2%)
both trans-men and trans-women
2 (1.7%)
both cis-men and trans-men
6 (5%)
both cis-women and trans-women
27 (22.7%)
everyone, regardless of gender and orientation
23 (19.3%)

Total Members Voted: 109

Anna-Maria

Quote from: Jenna Marie on October 11, 2014, 12:08:55 PM
The OP registered, posted this, and has not been active basically since she made this thread. I wouldn't hold my breath that she's going to be back or listen to any of the answers, at this point; dedicated researchers generally don't abandon their sources for weeks on end. I have no idea what she was hoping to accomplish, but it looks like dialogue wasn't it.

Jenna-Marie, you´re right she never came back but anyway I think it was right to set out my opinion on this matter. I´m somewhat suspicious on the intention of cis women intruding this place. As I learned, in Lesbian circles the FAAB, trans-exclusionist, "omfg we are all panicking she used to have a cock" virus is endemic. When a cis-dyke strolls along here asking inappropriate questions in an inappropriate manner I´m getting upset. And I´m hot-blooded. I can´t stand injustice and insincerity where ever it raises its head. We all should be more cautious on incidents like this. This is a shelter for trans-women and not a laboratory for eccentric cis-dykes.

To forestall any accusation of being anti-cis. I´m with a bi-sexual cis girl and the most warm and cordially welcome after coming-out I had by straight cis-women. cis-dykes have a problem with us. But this should not be our problem. They should ask themselves what´s wrong in their perception.

Being queer doesn´t prevent you from being reactionary. As sad as it is.

xoxo

Anna-Maria
"Think pink, but don´t wear it"
Karl Lagerfeld







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Releca

Quote from: Anna-Maria on October 11, 2014, 11:58:48 AM
That´s why all this talking about "biological" women in contrast to trans-women is so awkward and hollow. Are we not biological women? Are XY-women no biological women? Are infertile women or women born without a womb and ovaries are no biological women ???  Of course, we are all biological women! And noone`s entitled to call us otherwise!

http://www.quora.com/How-does-a-single-chromosome-make-all-the-difference-between-how-female-brains-and-male-brains-work

This link is a good article and shows the only real difference genetically. Every human on earth is female up until a certain point where a genetic change occurs making you born male. There is also a third gender where the Y chromosome is similar in size to the X and has a shorter arm going down. On the flip side the Y chromosome is shrinking and some believe it may be going away leaving an all female population. Not fully proven just a theory.

Back to the topic for the story are you making a book based on gender bending or gender transformation since sexual preference is the same for natural born or born different. We are whom we are and who we like stays the same. Some traits changes with hormone change but straight or gay is who you are and its something you know just like your gender is who you are and not if you choose it. We choose when but not if.
I am a caterpillar creeping along a leaf.
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Jenna Marie

Anna-Maria : Oh, absolutely, you asked some very good questions, and it's all issues that deserve to be raised. I just didn't want you to get too invested in the idea that she'd be back to care...

(I'm fully supportive of cis women who appear here to figure out how to have or sustain a relationship with a trans person [man or woman], but I share your skepticism about those who want to treat us like lab rats.)
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Allyda

Quote from: Kaylee Angelia on October 10, 2014, 12:22:43 AM
I know what you mean about height Ally. I'm 5'6 and am "so" hoping to find someone taller than I am so I can know what it's like to stand on my tip-toes and reach up to kiss them. Sigh...  :-*
Hi Kaylee,

You and I are about the same height. In fact, I'm 5-5 so your 1" taller than me, lol!

Ally ;)
Allyda
Full Time August 2009
HRT Dec 27 2013
VFS [ ? ]
FFS [ ? ]
SRS Spring 2015



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Anna-Maria

Quote from: Releca on October 11, 2014, 12:31:19 PM
http://www.quora.com/How-does-a-single-chromosome-make-all-the-difference-between-how-female-brains-and-male-brains-work

This link is a good article and shows the only real difference genetically. Every human on earth is female up until a certain point where a genetic change occurs making you born male. There is also a third gender where the Y chromosome is similar in size to the X and has a shorter arm going down. On the flip side the Y chromosome is shrinking and some believe it may be going away leaving an all female population. Not fully proven just a theory.

Back to the topic for the story are you making a book based on gender bending or gender transformation since sexual preference is the same for natural born or born different. We are whom we are and who we like stays the same. Some traits changes with hormone change but straight or gay is who you are and its something you know just like your gender is who you are and not if you choose it. We choose when but not if.

Thanks for sharing this link with me  :-* I got really into this since I came to accept myself as trans and susequently coming out. Since back then I´m reading everything on this I can get in my hands. I like to figure out thoroughly what´s the reason for being trans and this leads you into biology (evolutionary development and genetics).

What you´re pointing at is fundamentally right but by now genetics tend to create two species of humans, women and men. The process of creation, starting with meiosis in the male body by producing sperm (the male delivers either the Y or the X chromosome in his single sperm which is inflitrating the egg hence creating an XX chromosome set or an XY chromosome set, thus letting the embryo develop in each "inprogrammed" way. So far the truth we all have been teached in our biology classes.

But it´s not that easy. As the Dwyer- and de-la-Chapelle-Syndrome shows, one can develop in each direction reversely regardless your primary chromosomal setup. Not to mention the XXY-syndrome or Klinefelter-syndrome which inflicts logically only phenotypical males. Furthermore, recent studies show that the chromosomal setup can show up to 4 (!) chromosal  fixtures, like XXXY, XXYY, XYYY, XXY, XYY and so on. As long as there is one X chromosome the embryo will develop into a living human being. YY setups are inevitably dead.

Above all, these settings have no proven influence on brain development in the embryo, thus subconscious sex can differ from chromosomal sex, i.e. Transsexuality. And this is the most interesting but yet the most unexplored realm in evolutionary development. Scientists just don´t know exactly what makes the brain female. They consider hormonal fluctuations in the womb as a main reason for leaving a chromosomal  male baby with a female brain.

For example, the forefinger-ring finger relation is an indicator of testosterone in the womb and the embryo itself. Experiments with mice showed that, the ring finger posesses receptors for testosteron, thus the ringfinger grows longer under the influence of testosterone in the womb. That´s why most women have a longer forefinger rather than a longer ring finger and in males it´s exactly reverse. If I look at my hands, on both sides the forefinger is way longer than the ring finger, showing that I have not been exposed to testosterone in the womb as I should have been for developing fully as male. And I´m transsexual. Accident or context? I believe this no accident, although I don´t know my chromosomal setup. Do you? Mine will be examined by my Endo by end of this year and I´m quite curious ::).

Personally, I believe that, in most transsexuals the SRY is not completely working, thus sending signals to mother´s body for holding back the testosterone flooding which overwhelms the male embryo in the womb and therefore the brain will never be exposed to an amount of testosterone necessary for developing into a male brain.

Back to your initial statement. Every Embryo starts out as female and if something (genetically or hormonal) is not in the correct ratio, the child will be either transsexual or in other cases intersex. But this has yet to be proven scientifically.

xoxo

Anna-Maria

"Think pink, but don´t wear it"
Karl Lagerfeld







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emilyking

That's just one take on intersex.  I am waiting on my lab results to confirm I have Partial Androgen Insensitivity Syndrome.
Which means, I'm genetically,  male but hormonally I'm female.  I have hypogonadism, which means I should have a low t count, but even I Spiro I have a higher t count.
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Sosophia

its not female in the beginning in the womb  , its both , both the mullerian and wolfian duct , then one regress or not grow depending on hormones .(for reproductives systems) 
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Anna-Maria

Quote from: Sosophia on October 11, 2014, 03:35:41 PM
its not female in the beginning in the womb  , its both , both the mullerian and wolfian duct , then one regress or not grow depending on hormones .(for reproductives systems)

Granted, it´s somehow inaccurate to talk about Embryos being female or male in the beginning, but what makes the Embryo develop into a male child? It´s the SRY, a genetic trigger if you will. If the SRY is damaged or inactive for somewhat reason, the child will develop  inevitably into a female one regardless of the chromosomal setting. In other words, for developing into a male baby there has to be something "plus" while developing into a female baby is the straight way without a need for any "plus". From this point of view, the female condition is the basic condition unless SRY comes into play.
"Think pink, but don´t wear it"
Karl Lagerfeld







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Ashey

I have a boyfriend and have previously been with some men, but I also like women and have been with women. Really, anything goes for me but it depends on the person. I'm not sure I lean one way or another anymore.
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Kaylee Angelia

@Anna-Maria You raise great some great points. I feel like the Trans* community is reaching a tipping point or a cross roads where we're still very open to dialogue and questions regarding who we are and are moving into a space of still welcoming dialogue but demanding the respect every human being deserves.

I'm sure as time moves on (hopefully) and people become more educated our sexuality will matter less and less and be seen as the private matter that it is.
"Discovering I'm Trans has been the greatest discovery of my life. Giving myself the gift of transitioning is the greatest gift I've ever given myself." - Kaylee Angelia Van De Feniks


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Shantel

Quote from: Ashey on October 11, 2014, 09:00:06 PM
I have a boyfriend and have previously been with some men, but I also like women and have been with women. Really, anything goes for me but it depends on the person. I'm not sure I lean one way or another anymore.

Oh then there's hope for me then huh Ashey?

I'm attracted to both cis and trans women and I could get interested in a few trans men given the right situation. My long term squeeze is cis and very pretty, someone I wouldn't let go of without a knock-down drag-out battle. I was dead to sex for a ten year period after the onset of my transition, but that has changed.
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Alesium

I'm attracted to Wife, so I guess cis-women.  She is my one and only.  When we were engaged, I told her about the dysphoria and not only did she still marry me, she's also very interested in seeing my women's fashion Pinterest I just mentioned to her. :p

Toodles from TN,
Ales
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Shantel

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Violet Bloom

Quote from: Shantel on October 12, 2014, 05:11:07 PM
I can tell that you're a soft touch for cute little amphibians...

  Hey, Shan, you seem pretty cool and all but that new avatar is kinda freaking me out! :-\

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Shantel

Quote from: Violet Bloom on October 12, 2014, 08:18:57 PM
  Hey, Shan, you seem pretty cool and all but that new avatar is kinda freaking me out! :-\

That's my halloween costume scardy cat, maybe I'll visit you tonight in your sleep, don't forget to look under your bed.  >:-)
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