What is your prefered pronoun?

[Jade_404]

Here I marked F in my profile. So my answer to the original question is -> I like she and her, those make me happy. To come across as male I have to be grumpy, angry , stern, etc. All feelings I don't like anyway.

This made me think about my past and my two brothers. They always called me bitchy when I would get upset about something. Heck they still do. You know that point past angry.. where you are flipping out. They come across as dicks or ->-bleeped-<-s, like lots of men. Me I always came across as bitchy... haha 

[Kimberley Beauregard]

Either male or female are fine with me.

[D.N.]

Laughing personally because someone on the first page said, "nobody wants to be an 'it'," but it/its/itself pronouns are actually fairly common among neurodivergent/mentally ill nonbinary folks? Though to be fair, I didn't realize it/its/itself was an option until pretty recently. I pretty much accept any neutral pronouns out of practicality, but i'm not a "they" or an "ey" or a "ze". I am indeed an "it".

[Devlyn]

Yeah, it's really smart to avoid "everyone, no one, all, none" and other broad brush terms on this site. Experienced posters refrain from making decisions for others, because life has taught them that they don't like others making decisions for them.

[Gothic Dandy]

I once ran into a person (online) who said, "When someone asks me if I'm a boy or a girl, I ask them, 'What do you think?' and however they answer, I tell them they're correct."

I want to be like that person.

It's hard being that way offline, though. Particularly because I want to be seen as a person, not as an ambiguously-gendered object. I don't necessarily want my first impression upon everyone to be "What is this person? Which head-box do I put them in? What pronouns do I use for them??"

I've been toying with the idea of asking people to call me "he/him" just to see how it feels. Otherwise I'm ok with she and ze, also. I know what I am inside; you can call me whatever makes you comfortable, since I am both male and female. That's how I see it.

[Shantel]

I'm not the least bit pronoun sensitive, him, her, she, it, them.....whatever blows your hair back!