Julie:
I can only offer long distance hugs. As many as you need. As often as you want. And a virtual shoulder for crying.
And witty repartee about ex (or soon to be ex) spouses.
She will win if you let her. You will win if you but try.
From a practical stand point, she can ask for anything. You could agree to such Treaty of Versaille terms. But you are not required to agree or accept.
There are many things that go into a divorce decree. I know, I've been through a couple.
So do not give up hope or fear of losing everything. It will be significant, no doubt, but not eviscerating.
Do not give up. I won't.
-Sandy
