I'm 5' 10" and about 160 pounds with an athletic male build and still in the closet (mostly). I wear women's size 10 and love heels. On those rare occasions when I go out, I guess I don't give my height too much thought. My focus is on moving as gracefully as I can in those heels I love so much

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I really just try to be comfortable with who I am and hope the taller girls here can be too. There are as many body types as there are people. Control the things about your body that you can with diet and exercise and work to enhance or embrace the things you can't control, like height.
Hugs to you all.