Quote from: Dennis on August 17, 2007, 09:30:27 AM
Quote from: Buffy on August 17, 2007, 07:17:54 AM
Personally, I would prefer not to be lumped in with GLB.
I have nothing against these groups of people, but the public at large has enough trouble with the T( Transsexual).
Being Transsexual is not a life choice, choosing your partner or significant other is.
Buffy
Being gay, lesbian or bisexual is not a choice any more than being transsexual is. Choosing to live with someone you love is as much of a choice as choosing to transition. Sure, you could not do it, but at what price to yourself?
Dennis
That's actaully not entirely true Dennis.
I am active with our local Pride, and LGBT community, and there are many LGB people who would like to stop asserting that.
For
most people, it isn't a choice, but to say that as a blanket statement margenalizes the experience of many people for whom it is.
(The other reason they are against it is because it simply shouldn't matter whether it is a choice or not.
The final being that there are many other things in humanity that peopleare born with that are unacceptable, if the only responnse to why they should have rights is the "biological claim" then by that same argument people who are born skitxzophrenic or psychotic should be able to do what they want. Logically Speaking.
These have nothing to with your statement, but is an interesting note non-theless.)
Posted on: December 30, 2007, 02:44:33 PM
In REsponse to the original Post:
I have thought about this some myself, and I have reached sort of a two-fold conclusion:
One; We do need to stand on our own.
With our own organizations, activism, fundraising, lobbying, etc. We need some sort of form-able as well as from
idable community.
I belive this is true whether or not someone wishes to be "seen as trans" or not. If those who have already transitioned do not help, the next generation will just have to go throught the same stuff they went through, and so I belive they should, in good consience, help.
We need to be able to make big decisions and actions independantly of the GLB groups.
The other things is that I believe we need to be able to work with them on common issues and accept their help when it is offered.
However we should not depend on this help as a crutch, and we need to make it known that
our support on their issues, is not unconditional, and that if they use the "t" in their label and yet are not trans-active or trans-inclusive that we will actively brand them as such and as hipocrites. And we need to do so. We ought to create an organization simply to watch the GLB organizations, and post, rate, reward, and chastize those who do a good or bad job of inclusion. An organization has no right to use the "t" in their labeling when they are not trans inclusive.
I feel we need to let them know loud and clear that our participation, and endorsement is not un-conditional
and that if they don't perform, or fall short, we will withdraw and pull out.
And we should do so.