Quote from: Jessie Ann on February 08, 2015, 11:36:18 PM
Thanks Madison! I am really really really new to all of this. I kinda think I was going to a funeral, a funeral for my old self.
I'm still getting used to trying to figure out what works and what doesn't. Is there a FAQ for dressing the mid 50's 6'2" transgendered woman?? I really do need to get some idea of what works and what doesn't. The only way to learn is to ask so, no, I don't think it is rude at all.
The picture doesn't show it good but I was wearing black and gold leggings and not nylons. I wore the boots because they are the only flats that I have right now and I didn't want to wear heals. I am going to get stated on HRT shortly so I will probably have to hold off on getting any jeans until I discover how I am going to respond to it 
Hopefully my bust will fill in similar to my daughters and no one will notice my shoulders or hands 
Madison's advice is excellent. I would like add that height really is not something that will get a person clocked. It is all about face (ffs + hormones) Beard (laser if possible) and voice.
Hand size will diminish enough with hormones enough to not be a tell. So will shoulders and ribcage ... not to mention other areas of fat redistribution and muscle changes.
Also, I have read the body changes continue far longer than most of us understand. Perhaps as much as five years... or even seven years. Also there is a bump in effectiveness with SRS or Orchi.
Back to clothing. Madison has it nailed. Black for areas to de-emphisize... bright colors and prints for areas to emphasize. A black v-neck top with 3/4 sleeves is magic. But white can work too if the skirt were a wonderfully bright color.
Look for websites like this:
http://www.youbeauty.com/body-fitness/dressing-for-your-body-type?page=3 Most of us fall into the: "Inverted Triangle" Body Shape (there is even a name for it for all women, not just trans women.)
Best features. A tapered torso, trim waist and killer legs make you look confident and fit.
Common pitfalls. Your legs are typically well-sculpted, so your instinct may be to show them off with fitted leggings. That works if you're wearing a long top (below your booty), but in general, you want to add volume to your lower half.
Tops
You look great in cowl necks and deep V-necks that help minimize a stronger upper body. Go for simple, fuss-free shirts (no ruffles!). For feminine flair, tops with gently draped fabric or flutter sleeves add movement and softness. Embrace your inner flapper, and rock a drop-waist dress—a look that few can pull off!
Bottoms
You want to amplify your lower half to match the fullness of your upper body. Choose wide-leg pants or long skirts to create balance. As a general rule, look for flowy, full-bodied pants and skirts that make your lower body look bigger (yes, that's a good thing).
Fabrics and Flair
Have fun with embellished, detailed shoes to call attention down, (A reason to buy shoes? Umm, yes please!) The same goes for jewelry: Keep jewelry minimal on top, but get creative with bangles and rings to accessorize an outfit. Choose light colors and prints below the belt, and stick to darker colors on top for a more balanced look. Also, consider the size of your purse. A small purse will amplify your torso. Carry larger purses at your side or in the bend of your arm to avoid adding volume on top.
From
http://www.realsimple.com/beauty-fashion/clothing/shopping-guide/youre-rectangleThe Rectangle
With little definition at the waist, this straight-up-and-down figure is often considered boyish. Opt for styles that fit snugly at your middle but flare out at the bottom (whether it's a skirt or pants) to create curves.
Styles to avoid: Dresses that are tight all over and anything too flowy or unstructured around the waist, like Empire-waist tops.
For pants try Boot-Cut Pants
A slim fit at the hips that graduates to slightly wider hems gives the impression of all-around shapeliness.
Fitted Jackets are great... "A nipped-in blazer creates a waist and the appearance of fuller hips," says Isaac Mizrahi
Flared Skirts are great... A flouncy hem contrasted with a tapered waist gives the illusion of an hourglass.
There are many more tips. Just type, "clothing styles for inverted triangle" or "best clothes for recatangle body shape."
Many photos and celebrity examples are also available.
Kind regards,
Danielle
