I am fairly late to this thread so I won't try and reply to every post but I will say that, you all look AMAZING.
For years I felt I never fitted in anywhere and I hated being different. Even though I have only been here a short time I feel I actually do fit in and I am comfortable with that. Thank you each and everyone for helping me see through tie fog.
Ok, I need to stop before I get all mushy and teary eyed.