che sesso ho io?

[peter]

hello everyone, sorry for my english.
I'm new to the forum, I wanted to know if someone can help me.

I am genetically and physically male, but I want so much have a vagina, but i will not take hormones to become female, I like my male body, with the exception of my penis, I hate, I hate my erections in the morning.

For some years I attend a transsexual very feminine with a wonderful penis, which I really like, I get on well with her and I explained her what I want, she told me that it would be nice, but i can not do it without a complete transition (it is ironic she do not completed m2f transition, and I'm happy).

My desire to have a vagina is on the rise, I feel my penis like a wall that does not allow me to try all internal sensations and this bothers me.

I thought about the emasculation, but in fact I want my "little hole" and I want to touch it, I want feel.

I tried in other forums to know out what they are, what sex they are, I have not found anything, not even know if i can have an operation.
can someone give me some info?

[Ms Grace]

Welcome to the forum. I think you would have a very hard time finding a surgeon who would do this for you. Not impossible but these days highly unlikely. Have you spoken to a counsellor or a therapist to better understand where this need comes from?

[peter]

One consultant , told me that he does not know how to classify me .
I'm not gay , are not effeminate , I do notte have female behavior , I not need to dress like a woman , I did not have hormonal problems , my childhood is ok.
He told me i am normal guy.
He asked me if this is only a fantasy.

[Cindy]

Hi peter,

I think you need to have a talk with a professional therapist to help you. In virtually every country and certainly every good surgeon want letters from usually two psychiatrists who can vouch for your decision.

Fantasy does exist and there is nothing wrong with that, but the practicalities of having and dealing with a vagina are very real. I know of no technique that does not use at least some if not most of the penile tissue, so it is very unlikely that you can be constructed to have a vagina without your penis and testicles being removed.

When you have a surgically created vagina you have to maintain it (her) by dilating several times a day in order to keep the vaginal cavity open. There are also many medical risks in the surgery. Woman who decide to go ahead with the surgery balance those risks with their need for surgery. Of course many woman decide not to have surgery and they are just as real woman as those who do.

[peter]

I know, i still have  testis and penis.
Neovagina require much more care than natural vagina: enlargement ,  clean,  lubrification.
Sameones have my necessity am i unique? Surgeon can create Neovagina and preserve testes in abdominal cavity as  undescended testes?

[mrs izzy]

And why a vagina and not just keep your over sized clitors.

And if you found a doctor who would do a Neo vagina why would you want to keep the testes.

GD is seriouse to us who have dealt with it for years.

It's not a fetish and when someone wishes to make it one yes we get little upset.

I think you need professional help and should start there.

So we are glad to offer support here but most would prefer a realistic expectation of suffering.

So good luck in your dreaming.