Quote from: Emily R on February 17, 2015, 08:00:59 PM
I was recently watching a TV show where people were dancing, and I thought to myself that someday after transition I will be able to dance and enjoy not caring that I may look feminine as I always have be kind of concern with the movements, and then I thought about this quote which I read 20 years ago at this beautiful and young secretary's desk and I have never forgotten:
"You've gotta dance like there's nobody watching,
Love like you'll never be hurt,
Sing like there's nobody listening,
And live like it's heaven on earth."
― William W. Purkey
I will finally be able to accomplish all of these thing after transition and SRS!
What GIRLY things that you have always wished for have you done already or are you waiting to do?
Emily
You do realize that you can dance and not worry that you look feminine before/without transition and SRS...I more worry that I look like a bad dancer. Awhile back, I was at a store, buying some new Converse shoes, and the cashier girl was caught up with the song they were playing and was dancing at the counter, and when she saw that I was watching, she was really embarrassed. I'm not sure I'd have been...
I don't know I'd feel comfortable about spa day, though. Quite a lot of women have never had one though, seems like a waste of money to many.
I really do whatever I want and don't really care if I come off as girly, I only publicly present as a slightly androgynous guy, but really, that along with the mannerisms and patterns of speech I have, most people know what's up, but I can still act super macho for a brief time if I feel I'm in danger, or feel it's to my advantage. I used to worry about coming of as feminine, but that just is who I am. Trying to not do or say anything feminine resulted in me just coming off as a super shy, and boring person, who was still very feminine. That was far worse! It's funny, now that I wear panties full time and accept that I'm basically a girl, I'm not shy at all, though I'm still a bit quiet.
