Thank you girls! I actually went to a wig store....turns out I have an oversized head:-( so in order for them to get me one it has to be custom ordered... I get mine from
crossdressers.com....and they are lace front so they end up running me between 100 to 140... and every single one I have received so far seems to fit pretty well just trying to find a style I like....so I have been using make over apps that take your picture and show different styles which seems to work pretty well ....altho Julie that is amazing advice...understated.... hmmm I like that I keep thinking long and flowy but a shorter one might be nicer something not crazy and I can put under a beanie