Hi Ada, Welcome to Susan's. I thought In posted this before but must have goofed.
Anywho, you do so belong here. YOU, are why we are here. You are why Susan created this safe little space. You are why the moderators do a great job of keeping this place safe - so you, whether or not you know you're transgender or are just questioning, have a place where you can come and ask questions, meet people who have gone through many of the issues you're facing, or just come and get a hug.
Although it may seem crazy now, but you have a lot going for you. Your father is accepting - very cool. You've come out to your fiance before you got married - many of us wish we'd have known before we got married. You've started seeing a therapist and one visit might be too soon to come to the conclusion you're transgender, we want you to know we are here for you. If you ultimately decide to transition, we're behind you. If you decide that transition isn't for you, you know what, we're behind you. We're not going to rah-rah you into transitioning, but be here for you to ask questions and be a resource and be supportive.
I'm at work so I don't get to welcome everyone, but I want you to know, we are glad you found us and hope we can be of a help to you.
HUGS,
Traci
You were posting as I was. we've all repressed for a long time, we all hated causing disruption to our families, we all struggle with confusion and wavering feelings until it gets sorted out, a decision is made, a plan is made and then put into action. It would be nice having not been born this way, but it sure is interesting, and remember you do deserve happiness. It might not be what others had envisioned for your life, but it's up to you to decide.
Hugs
