So he's like... and i'm like...

[paula lesley]

Men ? mmmm ? They like me, I think. They express interest, it seems. So why do I feel so creeped out by them ? I went to a meeting ; nothing heavy, and I felt ok. Just very informal stuff. I think I did ok, just had a little worry about eating in public ! ( I am the only one lol ) Dry food always a problem for me  The man in front of me was well into it !  food all over the floor At the end of the meeting I am ; I think the American term is, " hit on "  by three men. They asked about me and if I was on my own and all of them gave me their card. Sh*t ! I thought, what do I do now ! I have never had a boy friend and these men see me as I potential lay ! Help ! One was tall about 6' 5" I'm 5' 11" so it felt good looking up his nose  the others were too short but easy to talk to. Two years ago I was a hairy welder with a death wish and now I'm the girl next door Should I been worried or just enjoy it ? Answers on a post card to- Little miss confused 

[Laura_7]

Well I'd say you get used to it

Cis girls had more time to get used to it... and to the application of subtle or not so subtle hints 


hugs

[KristinaM]

Did you find any of them attractive?    If so, then you should at least setup a one-on-one date with them maybe.  Just remember that your own safety should be your number one priority.

I would be pretty freaked out too though, so good luck and have fun with it!

[Sammy]

One of basic rules of survival - You dont have to react to their advances, especially if You dont want to

[paula lesley]

Mmmm , it's just so odd when men say " bye "  grab you, and place a little kiss on your cheek and you know they like you. It's just weird  I'm the one with the problem; of course, they simply see a women in front of them and I just want to run !

I put their cards in the bin and a week later got them out again. Then I put them in the bin...

I'm just so weird 

[Laura_7]

If they have an email on the cards you could think about starting slowly... with conversations...


hugs

[Sammy]

Mmmm , it's just so odd when men say " bye "  grab you, and place a little kiss on your cheek and you know they like you. It's just weird  I'm the one with the problem; of course, they simply see a women in front of them and I just want to run !

I put their cards in the bin and a week later got them out again. Then I put them in the bin...

I'm just so weird 

It's hardly odd - more likely somebody has issues with respecting other people's boundaries (which You MUST set up for Your own safety, for god's sake!).