Men ? mmmm ? They like me, I think. They express interest, it seems. So why do I feel so creeped out by them ? I went to a meeting ; nothing heavy, and I felt ok. Just very informal stuff. I think I did ok, just had a little worry about eating in public ! ( I am the only one lol ) Dry food always a problem for me  The man in front of me was well into it !  food all over the floor At the end of the meeting I am ; I think the American term is, " hit on "  by three men. They asked about me and if I was on my own and all of them gave me their card. Sh*t ! I thought, what do I do now ! I have never had a boy friend and these men see me as I potential lay ! Help ! One was tall about 6' 5" I'm 5' 11" so it felt good looking up his nose  the others were too short but easy to talk to. Two years ago I was a hairy welder with a death wish and now I'm the girl next door Should I been worried or just enjoy it ? Answers on a post card to- Little miss confused 

Well I'd say you get used to it

Cis girls had more time to get used to it... and to the application of subtle or not so subtle hints 


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Did you find any of them attractive?    If so, then you should at least setup a one-on-one date with them maybe.  Just remember that your own safety should be your number one priority.

I would be pretty freaked out too though, so good luck and have fun with it!

One of basic rules of survival - You dont have to react to their advances, especially if You dont want to

Mmmm , it's just so odd when men say " bye "  grab you, and place a little kiss on your cheek and you know they like you. It's just weird  I'm the one with the problem; of course, they simply see a women in front of them and I just want to run !

I put their cards in the bin and a week later got them out again. Then I put them in the bin...

I'm just so weird 

If they have an email on the cards you could think about starting slowly... with conversations...


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Quote from: paula lesley on August 18, 2015, 10:49:35 AM
Mmmm , it's just so odd when men say " bye "  grab you, and place a little kiss on your cheek and you know they like you. It's just weird  I'm the one with the problem; of course, they simply see a women in front of them and I just want to run !

I put their cards in the bin and a week later got them out again. Then I put them in the bin...

I'm just so weird 

It's hardly odd - more likely somebody has issues with respecting other people's boundaries (which You MUST set up for Your own safety, for god's sake!).