I'm single and recently started talking to a guy who identifies as gay but knows I'm trans and is just fine with It on a friendship level. We're separated by 2 hrs drive and he's the only one with a car at this point in time. He visited me and ended up spending the night and we had some PG cuddling where neither of us were overtly sexual but you could cut the tension with a knife. Both of us enjoyed it, and he's continued to talk to me.
Our conversations have also leaned to the idea of something more than friendship. Both of us move slow, but we've both been honest in our intentions - we'd like to see where this goes.
How do I have the sex talk with him? I want to explain my body, my comfort zone, and I want to know if he's been tested recently. I also want him to be comfortable asking me questions that are important to him.
