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Started by wifeofftm, September 07, 2015, 01:38:04 PM

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wifeofftm

Hi all,

My FTM husband (37) and I (44) have been together for 13 years and have two children. Within the last month, he told me he wants to transition to becoming a man, and we told the kids (age 7), our families and his workplace. He is now going by his chosen name everywhere in our lives. He has a surgery consult later this month and a hormone therapy consult next month. Things have been moving super quick as you can see, but that is pretty normal for us - we may take a while to figure things out, but once we do, we move! LOL

I am looking for spouses who have supported their ftm partners through transition. I haven't found many resources for spouses of FTM. I'm also looking to connect with folks who are parents and guiding their children through a parent's transition. Our kids have been simply amazing - their response was basically, "well when we were younger, we thought mommy was a boy, so we were right and you were wrong." Out of the mouths of babes!!!

Looking forward to connecting with other folks in similar places in their lives!
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purpleshiny

Welcome!  I don't fall into the category of spouses of those transitioning, but I can say that this community is absolutely amazing.  I just joined and already feel more welcome than I have practically anywhere else online, and I know there are many people who fall into your category on here.  I hope you find what you're looking for and enjoy your time here!  :)
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Mariah

Hi and welcome to Susan's. I recommend checking out the SO section of the site. Now as far the children part I would look at the other sections because many members on here have children and will be able to help further. Thank you for coming on her to support your husband. I look forward to seeing you around on the forums. Good luck and Hugs
Mariah

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V M

Hi  :icon_wave:

Welcome to Susan's  :)  Glad to have you here, join on in the fun

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katrinaw

Big warm welcome to Susan's

As Mariah suggested look at the SO section, but thanks for joining and supporting your spouse, and for sharing with us.

look forward to seeing you around the forum's

L Katy  :-*
Long term MTF in transition... HRT since ~ 2003...
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Rachel

Welcome to Susan's. You a a wonderful person for being so supportive.
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sabreanderson199

Hi!
I just joined the page. I am the SO of a FTM he has been transitioning for three years. Just recently had his hysto and started T. I would be happy to answer any questions i can and be here to support. I dont have kids but we have talked about what and how to go about the subject when we do.

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