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Northampton GIC Referral - Rubber Stamped!

Started by byanyothername, October 17, 2015, 08:10:50 AM

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Devlyn

Quote from: Holly2016 on August 11, 2017, 05:23:47 PM
Devlyn, everything that I have ever done in my life has always gone wrong and for once, just once, I hoped that I would be allowed to become me. I will never achieve anything, I will never change anything, I will never be part of history, just a forgotten nobody, but a nobody that was able to find themselves and that is all that matters. But I can't even have that so what's the point? Over the years I have come to realise that life, or reality, has a consciousness. Some call it fate, others destiny and others Gods, but however you think about it, there is a consciousness watching, overseeing, and controlling our actions by 'circumstance'. I have fought against 'destiny' for over 40 years trying to make my life better and it ALWAYS goes wrong. I am so tired that I just can't fight any more. I no longer see death as the end, just a transition in its own right to re-birth. I'm sure that 'destiny' will carry on kicking me me as long as it can until the time is right when I finally take control.

I felt that way at various points in my life. Realizing there wasn't going to be a Nobel prize was a crushing moment for me. I think you've slipped into counting what you don't have rather than what you do have. That includes a loving partner, many concerned people here, an absolutely impish grin, and let's not forget, one of Megan's colleagues who "seemed to be rather taken with me and kept me talking for over 45 minutes!"

You have a fan club, and a family you can talk to right here. If things get too much, there are professionals who can help you get through the darkness. We lose too many friends, please rethink this. Please?

Hugs, Devlyn
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davina61

I am looking at 4years and that's when I retire so a slowish transition but still planning RLE from end of Oct even if I still look like a bloke in a wig with t*ts (breast forms) . I know at my age things wont happen fast, worst for me is my hair or rather lack off and will never be able to do anything about it. So chin up and join the scenic route as you will get there. Sent the form off to get my pension (miniscule ) fund so when it lands will be getting Gender GP to do there thing,hope fully soon. Looks like Northamptons on 2 years now . Well onward we go through the dark days, always a bright day to follow.
a long time coming (out) HRT 12 2017
GRS 2021 5th Nov

Jill of all trades mistress of non
Know a bit about everything but not enough to be clever
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PinkThorn682

Oh right, got my own referral there sorted out during my little hiatus here. Just need to play the waiting game now.
AMAB born - March 1992
Admitted to self - 2006
Came out - November 4th, 2015
Referred to GIC - June 23rd, 2017
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Laura_Ann

Hey Ladies,

Hope you have all survived the supposed festive season. 

How are you all getting on with Daventry now?    I am getting a bit disheartened as due to the amount of new referrals they are spreading appointment times.  My last appointment was in July and I had to send them my blood results at the end of October, but I've heard nothing since, no appointment date or anything :-( 
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Lisa55

Yeah, they are pretty swamped.  Dr Khosal and Timmins seem to be only doing initial assessments and surgery referrals now.  Tick-over and HRT meetings are handled by Dr Tickle and Dr Vaidya.   I had a meeting in Jan last year and they asked me to send more bloods in a few months later which i did in April,  this triggered another meeting which i was not keen on spending the day to attend just to be told all was ok so i called up and it was left that they would call me if there was any changes needed to my HRT, I heard nothing more until I sent another see to bloods in off my own back at the start of October which triggered another appointment.   I got my moneys worth of time in the appointment but only because Dr Tickle could not see my file so recapped all my history!! The great thing was though I also got to meet Holly while i was there and we had a great chat.

I'm due another blood test soon at Dr Tickles request and am supposed to get an appointment off the back of it so we will see.

I think once we are stable on HRT they don't want to see us much, but it would be nice if they were more proactive in monitoring us and providing some quick feedback.  Dr Webberley gets lots of criticism but she looked at and asked for my blood tests far more than NH have and i was with her for a 1/4 of the time.   I feel far more like i'm on my own in the NHS system.

Laura,  if its been three months then i'd be inclined to get a new set of bloods and send them in, see what happens.  Who knows if we time it right we might get to have a coffee this time.
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Shiratori

Quote from: Laura_Ann on January 09, 2018, 10:10:25 AM
Hey Ladies,

Hope you have all survived the supposed festive season. 

How are you all getting on with Daventry now?    I am getting a bit disheartened as due to the amount of new referrals they are spreading appointment times.  My last appointment was in July and I had to send them my blood results at the end of October, but I've heard nothing since, no appointment date or anything :-(

If it's been that long you may want to contact them. Email is best: genderclinic@nhft.nhs.uk. I had my first appointment at the end of August and my second one at the start of December so it's worth chasing up.

HRT Started 2018-01-22
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