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i did it! i went to work

Started by geeky_jamie, November 03, 2015, 06:14:46 AM

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geeky_jamie

i went to work presenting female for the first time.  im month 5 into hrt.  some people could not reconize me.  i did it in lou of haloween but everyone said they could tell that i wasnt joking.  we will give it time to set in


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WorkingOnThomas

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Releca

I'm happy for you and the look suits you. I think that step is scarier than originally coming out.
I am a caterpillar creeping along a leaf.
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geeky_jamie

Thank you all :0)

The conditions were as follows;

1: at least 75% people knew before presenting

2: I can keep my voice conversational in the 180-220hz range

3: enough laser/electro where you see minimal facial hair

4: quality hair piece

5:  I think hrt is doing it's job with my face,  (I'll let you all judge) I know my body is changing a lot
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Sarah82

Congratulations Jamie 😃
I have been scared witless each time I've been out but a little less scared each time.
I'm so excited for you.
Hugs,
Sarah

Remember one foot in front of the other... and swivel those hips!





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geeky_jamie

Hips and boobs are the only thing I'm getting so far, my buttox has yet to grow and I sit on it 8 hrs a day. I am getting jaw surgery to correct my underbite
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gamerchic_kaylee

That's SO awesome Jamie, and looking fantastic ;D  Love your hair by the way.
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Kibi

Congratulations - Very proud of you!  Work can be daunting - be sure to have some candid conversations with your management - bring an ally with you if it helps both of you out.

-Kibi


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geeky_jamie

Awe thank you all so much.  I was out to most ppl at work long before and now I just printed the legal name change packet. 
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Rachel

HRT  5-28-2013
FT   11-13-2015
FFS   9-16-2016 -Spiegel
GCS 11-15-2016 - McGinn
Hair Grafts 3-20-2017 - Cooley
Voice therapy start 3-2017 - Reene Blaker
Labiaplasty 5-15-2017 - McGinn
BA 7-12-2017 - McGinn
Hair grafts 9-25-2017 Dr.Cooley
Sataloff Cricothyroid subluxation and trachea shave12-11-2017
Dr. McGinn labiaplasty, hood repair, scar removal, graph repair and bottom of  vagina finished. urethra repositioned. 4-4-2018
Dr. Sataloff Glottoplasty 5-14-2018
Dr. McGinn vaginal in office procedure 10-22-2018
Dr. McGinn vaginal revision 2 4-3-2019 Bottom of vagina closed off, fat injected into the labia and urethra repositioned.
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Qrachel

How wonderful . . . you look great too!

Rachel
Rachel

"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow."
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dtraxx

I am happy for you as well, I am scared myself as I will be going to work at the end of the month.  I will be going as my new self.
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Shawna70

Wow! Thats awesome that your work is understanding and accepting! Im proud of you for that is a huge step!

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Emma-KS

I hope I look like that at 5 months, absolutely stunning.
I'm starting the shot in December. Only took 31 years to get here, but here at last.


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Denise

I think the word that first came to mind was "WOW" then followed by "you look great!"

I'd be interested in knowing how you let people know at work - you say "75% knew already" did you tell them or did they notice and make a comment?
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CassieH

Congratz -  I hope one day to have your courage.
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gennee

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soaringPhoenix

You look amazing! Very feminine <3


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