If And Hopefully When I'm A Post Op Lesbian Transwoman.

[Stephanie Sammantha]

This Is ALL TRUE.
If And Hopefully When I'm A Post Op Lesbian Transwoman:

- I will be a very comfortable post op lesbian transwoman. I can and will actually like taking pictures. Others could watch me doing intemete stuff, and I would be comfortable and even like that. 

- I will be a physically affectionate and touchy feely post top transwoman.

- I would show some skin. Never hide the arms. Sometimes show some leg, or upper back, or belly & lower back.

- When I'm a post op transwoman, I want to be a fat woman. I will gain alot of weight after becoming post op. My genetics and the hormone therapy will send alot of fat in my butt. Hopefully I will get a big belly, back fat, thick thighs, and thick arms too.

- When I'm a post op transwoman, I will enjoy getting sweaty. The hormone therapy will make me smell like a woman. It's the hormones that make born-a-girl women smell womanly, and born-a-boy men smell manly. A transwoman on hormones will smell womanly.

[Stephanie Sammantha]

Oh come on. I joined this forum so I could talk about this with humans who are not going to just ignore me, and guess what, I'm getting ignored.

[suzifrommd]

Oh come on. I joined this forum so I could talk about this with humans who are not going to just ignore me, and guess what, I'm getting ignored.

Sorry Stephanie, didn't mean to ignore you. I read your post and thought about it, but just didn't have much to add.

[Stephanie Sammantha]

Sorry Stephanie, didn't mean to ignore you. I read your post and thought about it, but just didn't have much to add.

I was being a baby because I have nobody to talk about this stuff anymore.

Me and my girlfriend broke up yesterday (she is okay with me being a lesbian pre op transwoman, and she is loving and accepting) and now, I don't really have anyone to talk about this stuff.

[suzifrommd]

I was being a baby because I have nobody to talk about this stuff anymore.

Me and my girlfriend broke up yesterday (she is okay with me being a lesbian pre op transwoman, and she is loving and accepting) and now, I don't really have anyone to talk about this stuff.

Ouch. Break-ups are painful now matter who or how.  I hope you're finding ways to be good to yourself.

I hear 'ya about not having someone to talk to. I'm not exactly in the same boat (I'm post-op) but I do know what it's like not to have anyone to talk to about this. I'm clueless how to meet, attract, and form relationships with women as a woman, and after years of attempting to date I have had no success. I wish I had someone who could talk to me about lesbian dating from an informed point of view.

All I can offer is a hug.

[kittenpower]

Oh come on. I joined this forum so I could talk about this with humans who are not going to just ignore me, and guess what, I'm getting ignored.

Have you read your post?

[Laura_7]

I was being a baby because I have nobody to talk about this stuff anymore.

Me and my girlfriend broke up yesterday (she is okay with me being a lesbian pre op transwoman, and she is loving and accepting) and now, I don't really have anyone to talk about this stuff.

Well have a *hug*

Sometimes its also dependent on when a post is made.
Its possible at certain times of the day fewer people are around, and the post drops down the list slowly.

Well... you might talk about what you feel right now... sometimes writing helps...

Well... concerning body changes its something cis people seem not to appreciate that much... so its an advantage if it can be appreciated...

its well possible breasts fill out a little...
and the backside...

and you might have a look here:
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,199480.msg1774230.html#msg1774230

https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,190328.msg1695279.html#msg1695279

by the way there is also a chat on susans.

hugs

[Stephanie Sammantha]

Ouch. Break-ups are painful now matter who or how.  I hope you're finding ways to be good to yourself.

I hear 'ya about not having someone to talk to. I'm not exactly in the same boat (I'm post-op) but I do know what it's like not to have anyone to talk to about this. I'm clueless how to meet, attract, and form relationships with women as a woman, and after years of attempting to date I have had no success. I wish I had someone who could talk to me about lesbian dating from an informed point of view.

All I can offer is a hug.

Thank You Very Very Very Much.

[Stephanie Sammantha]

Well have a *hug*

Sometimes its also dependent on when a post is made.
Its possible at certain times of the day fewer people are around, and the post drops down the list slowly.

Well... you might talk about what you feel right now... sometimes writing helps...

Well... concerning body changes its something cis people seem not to appreciate that much... so its an advantage if it can be appreciated...

its well possible breasts fill out a little...
and the backside...

and you might have a look here:
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,199480.msg1774230.html#msg1774230

https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,190328.msg1695279.html#msg1695279

by the way there is also a chat on susans.

hugs

Thank You Very Very Very Much.

[Stephanie Sammantha]

Have you read your post?

If I was a born-a-girl  lesbian woman and I have the same personality.
Some humans would consider be very weird.

Alot of born-a-girl  women want to be and then become a fat woman.

[Rejennyrated]

The thing is I've been a post-op lesbian for well over 30 years...

Lets just say that post did not entirely resonate with my reality. If it makes you happy then thats really great, but to me it read like a fantasy that I couldn't identify with or perhaps even correctly understand.

I'm not saying that you are wrong to feel that way, far from it, merely trying to explain why I personally did not respond. You clearly shared something precious to you. Unfortunately with the best will in the world we can't all share that mindset, but we do not mean to be rude or ignore you in not responding.

[Stephanie Sammantha]

The thing is I've been a post-op lesbian for well over 30 years...

Lets just say that post did not entirely resonate with my reality. If it makes you happy then thats really great, but to me it read like a fantasy that I couldn't identify with or perhaps even correctly understand.

I'm not saying that you are wrong to feel that way, far from it, merely trying to explain why I personally did not respond. You clearly shared something precious to you. Unfortunately with the best will in the world we can't all share that mindset, but we do not mean to be rude or ignore you in not responding.

I've been extra sensitive today, because me and my girlfriend broke up.
I really enjoy talking about me post op.
If and hopefully when that happens, my life will be far much better.

[Stephanie Sammantha]

My hopes for this forum were too high.

As usual on an internet forum, nobody has little to say on things I say, like now.
Other times others get upset with me.

Doesn't seem like I'm going to get friends here either.

I had to be a big baby for anyone to say something to me.

I don't want to have to beg to get others to talk to me.
I may end up just giving up on this forum too.

[Laura_7]

My hopes for this forum were too high.

As usual on an internet forum, nobody has little to say on things I say, like now.
Other times others get upset with me.

Doesn't seem like I'm going to get friends here either.

I had to be a big baby for anyone to say something to me.

I don't want to have to beg to get others to talk to me.
I may end up just giving up on this forum too.

Well just say exactly what you have as question...
or state a few emotions, so people can relate better...

have you read a few of the links, did they help you get a clearer view ?


hugs

[Stephanie Sammantha]

Well just say exactly what you have as question...
or state a few emotions, so people can relate better...

have you read a few of the links, did they help you get a clearer view ?


hugs

Yes I read it and thank you for the links.

I'll try to do that you said.

[Paige_tara]

Just going to point out... your post at the start was just a list of statements. Statements are hard to respond to, if not impossible.
If you want to build a conversation you need to be asking questions or write in a way that is open to other people's options or views.
Re-read your first post and try to think if and how you would respond to that from another persons perspective. I was another person that read it but didn't know how to respond or add anything to it, as I believe a lot of people did until you made others feel bad for ignoring you.

I do hope you settle in well here, there's a really great bunch of people that will give you endless help whenever you ask for it. The key is to ask, no throw statements out into the Internet, and I promise you'll suddenly feel so much better about being here!

I wish you all the best, and hope you enjoy your future engagement on this forum *hugs*

P x

[Stephanie Sammantha]

Just going to point out... your post at the start was just a list of statements. Statements are hard to respond to, if not impossible.
If you want to build a conversation you need to be asking questions or write in a way that is open to other people's options or views.
Re-read your first post and try to think if and how you would respond to that from another persons perspective. I was another person that read it but didn't know how to respond or add anything to it, as I believe a lot of people did until you made others feel bad for ignoring you.

I do hope you settle in well here, there's a really great bunch of people that will give you endless help whenever you ask for it. The key is to ask, no throw statements out into the Internet, and I promise you'll suddenly feel so much better about being here!

I wish you all the best, and hope you enjoy your future engagement on this forum *hugs*

P x

I was being a baby again. Very recently I've had experiences of being purposely ignored.

Before I wasn't so cynical to quickly assume others are purposely ignoring me.
I use to give others a very long period of the benefit of a doubt, but after awhile they prove they were indeed purposely ignoring me.

[Paige_tara]

I'm sorry to hear you've had such experiences in the past. But you don't need to worry here, no one will intentionally ignore you, and everyone will help if they can. If you don't get responses that's not the same as being ignored, that's just a sign that no one has anything to say that they feel would be beneficial to your post or the conversation

P x

[Stephanie Sammantha]

I'm sorry to hear you've had such experiences in the past. But you don't need to worry here, no one will intentionally ignore you, and everyone will help if they can. If you don't get responses that's not the same as being ignored, that's just a sign that no one has anything to say that they feel would be beneficial to your post or the conversation

P x

Thank you very very very much.

[Laura_7]

Thank you very very very much.

Well... now you could add some more...
how it makes you feel..
what you think...

so people have something to respond to... 


hugs