So here is our story. I have known my SO for over a year, we have been a couple for over 4 months. It took us a while to be together as we both had someone else in our lives. Savannah has been open with me, I have known about the transgender MTF part although I have done very little research on the topic. I just knew this person had to be in my life, that I totally fully was in love.
I am 15 years older than Savannah, she says that doesn't matter. I am the 2nd person who knows. New Years Eve we both dressed up, did our make up and went out. It helped that there was a large gay population at the event we attended. We both had a great time and I was very much attracted to her. Why not, she is still the same person?
I also introduced her to a friend of mine who has a FTM son. My friend had a lot of information and was able to speak to us frankly. All of this has prompted Savannah to finally make an appointment with a therapist.She made sure the appointment was a time that I could go with her. I am very excited for her and for us as a couple.
I have been reading and am finding out that I have some of the same concerns as other wives. I have a fear Savannah will find someone else, even though she tells me that I am the one for her. She wants no one else. My other concern is that I am 52, mother nature will take it's course and I will be thrown into - ugh - menopause. With me in that state, and Savannah wanting the start HRT I am sure things wont be so rosy. I am a pretty even tempered person so am hoping that will show through during this time. I am just worried about the future, our future and how we will cope with each other. I adore her, love her with all my heart, and she me. Has anyone gone through menopause with SO starting HRT?
