embarrassed of how i look

[tabitha34]

I an misunderstood an i an embarrassed of how i look. i do not see me as a man. I got fursuits because i do not like how i look. an because of ones not seeing me for me. It increased me needed my space an thats why i love too go on long walks. I  isolate my myself because it bugs me when some one calls me a he.

[Devlyn]

Hi Tabitha, a lot of us struggle with the way we look, it's completely understandable.  I'm a walker, too, and my dog loves me for it!  

Hugs, Devlyn

[tabitha34]

on my walks befor i come back i go under the Bridge too stay out longer an isolate my myself . i look when i an home i like too stay in my room isolate my myself . my being called a he bugs me too no end.

[Devlyn]

There's a tiny bridge over the river behind my house, I like hanging out there and watching the water go by. Would you like to add a gender marker to your avatar? We can put any of the following:

F for female
I for intersex
A for androgyne
Q for queer
Q for questioning
M for male (you don't want that, but I listed them all.)

Just let us know and we'll change it for you. 

Hugs, Devlyn

[Emily Rose]

Hi tabutha.

I can say you won't be on your own. I've just started my journey and the road can be a long one. We're all here to help and yes sometimes the solitude of walking gives you time to think things through.

I was like this and still am. But these days I walk with my dogs ask know they don't care and they want me for who I am.

*big hugs*
Emily

[tabitha34]

i an mentally disabled that stops me from getting a job. i an sad an mad at me for the way i look an its unfair that i can not go farer with me becoming a she .i just wish i had a way to do with i need to do for me too get on my way

[Devlyn]

Don't be mad at yourself. 

It sometimes seems like we're stuck and not getting closer to our goal of becoming who we really are. But each day you live as her is one day closer to a lifetime of being her. You start by accepting yourself and living life as yourself.

Hugs, Devlyn

[tabitha34]

This is a big help too me

[Devlyn]

If you were going to get a job, what would you like to do? Sometimes people have hobbies that can be profitable.

Hugs, Devlyn

[Amoré]

It is a little difficult telling what gender you are hun an answer would be so much easier and clearer then.

We all need space and I think trans people especially sometimes need more of it because we got so much of ourselves to explore. My escape is cycling I do it with a friend but still you focus on nothing else at that moment. It is your salvation. I still struggle to see me as myself also and I have what I call internal transphobia that is shooting me down at this stage. It bugs me when I am dressed female and my mother or someone gets the pronouns wrong or my name but that is life

[tabitha34]

that help me know why i need all the space i go for