I've read that one way to handle transition is to go on HRT and more or less live your life and start social transition when people start "misgendering" you. For lack of a better term, I've called this "natural" transition. (If anyone knows of a better term for it, I'll happily edit my post.)
Anyway, I was planning to do it this way, but suddenly realized: since I have no hair except on the sides and back of my head, no one is likely to gender me female unless I start wearing a wig. (I've resigned myself to having to wear a wig for the rest of my life.) But if I start wearing a wig, I'm likely to "out" myself, or at least have people asking me what's going on. (I got a lot of comments when I shaved off my beard.)
Any suggestions on how to handle this? I.e., how to make my hair so it could be seen as either male or female?