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Birth Order and Trans

Started by KarlMars, March 14, 2016, 09:41:47 AM

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KarlMars

I was wondering if birth order had anything to do with transexuals?

I have one younger brother with severe autism, and bi polar
I have bi polar disorder and tourettes.

I want to compare birth order of siblings, and if they or you have any disabilities.

BeverlyAnn

Oldest.  I show some very, very, very mild symptoms of Aspergers but have never been diagnosed.
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Deborah

I was born second.  I had an older sister that died during or soon after birth.  I have one younger brother.  None of us have any disabilities that I know of.


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Kylo

First born.

Far as I know none of the others have any diagnosed mental conditions or superpowers.

I did see a study suggesting sons among the younger siblings of a family had a higher incidence of homosexuality that was not affected by family dynamics or socialization. It's suspected that their mothers' bodies undergo changes when gestating boys that affects subsequent sons. Since there's apparently evidence suggesting exposure to certain hormones in utero affect the brain development of transsexuals, I wonder if there is some kind of correlation with birth order as well... not necessarily related to the "fraternal birth order effect" but it seems evident that the mother's body changes over time and with multiple gestations, and this does potentially impact developing brain and/or identity and sexuality of the fetus. Or perhaps the mother's own hormonal/mental balance just directly affects the fetus.

My mother said she did a lot of drugs and partying before I was uh... 'blessed' with life, which might also have something to do with how I developed. Miracle I came out with normal numbers of limbs, really.
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KathyLauren

I am the middle of three.  No disabilities in the family, though I find it interesting that my older brother is gay.  We are of the generation where DES could have been a factor, though my mother is no longer alive, so there is no way to confirm that.
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Eevee

I'm the oldest of two. I have severe depression and my younger brother is bipolar. We've both been close to suicide countless times.

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arice

I am an only child. I have a history of depression/bipolar 2. If I was a kid today, experts would probably feel the need to diagnose me with autism spectrum disorder... but I'm in my mid 30s so I was just considered antisocial and scientifically inclined...


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Adchop

I'm the youngest of 4 kids (I have 3 older sisters). I've never been diagnosed with any type of disability, though I have suffered from undiagnosed ADD since I was a child.
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Devlyn

4th of 5, I'm the only one blessed with The Transgender.  :)
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Rachel

I am 3rd of 3.

My brother suffers from depression.

I have depression from being trans which I am working on. My wife who works in early intervention says I have many of the signs of being on the spectrum of autism but I am not autistic. I stim, do ritualistic rubbing with my fingers and  with my teeth (it is a geometric pattern and I have done this since I was a child) and two weeks ago my wife flipped when I was eating soup with one hand and moving my fingers in front of my eyes with the other ( we were at a restaurant). When I was young my dad made a point that I look people in the eyes. Over and over he would reinforce his expectation. I work on being social and have made great progress.   
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stephaniec

older brother was gay now deceased , rheumatoid arthritis  genetically throughout family ancestry as a male trait and then me as trans.. curious.
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Ms Grace

I think we've found previously that birth order has absolutely no bearing on whether someone is transgender, and the above list confirms that.
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Second of three, all boys (well for now, all boys), both parents have passed, one from lung cancer, one for Alzheimer. We are all veterans. Very middle-middle class, grew up in the late 50's thru the early 70's, in a large eastern city.

The very idea of being transgender then was out of the question. I could have my dreams but society had you locked in to your roles from birth. How I didn't kill myself between then and now, God only knows.
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FTMax

I don't think so.

I'm my parent's only child together, but I have 4 half/step siblings. I'm the oldest out of everyone. My half brother has ADD and an unspecified mood disorder. The oldest of my stepsisters has BPD like me, but we have no blood relation. My two younger stepsisters are twins and I don't think they have any conditions.

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SophiaBleu

First Born

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kk

I'm the oldest of 3. Two younger brothers. I'm the only one who doesn't identify as cis and straight and perfectly """normal""" by mainstream society standards. As far as I know.  I've been the outcast since day one and my family has accepted it even if they tease me about it still (I've not come out to them as anything but I feel they wouldn't be super surprised at this point). I feel I must have some kind of mental thing going on but have never been diagnosed. Scared of therapy. Past trouble with ocd and gross intrusive thoughts. My mom's oldest brother has aspergers and I used to wonder if I had it a bit but now I'm wondering if it's been dysphoria all along, I just didn't recognize it and tried to label it something else.
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KarlMars

Quote from: BeverlyAnn on March 14, 2016, 11:12:23 AM
Oldest.  I show some very, very, very mild symptoms of Aspergers but have never been diagnosed.

I also show symptoms of aspergers, but no diagnosis.

Emileeeee

Oldest of 3.

The youngest is blessed with not a single care in the world for anybody's opinion of them.

The oldest is a manipulative @#%$#% of a drama queen.

No actual disabilities though.
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Jean24

I believe there is a strong correlation with first child. Most transgender people seem to be first born and 79% of families in the US have an oldest child.

There was even a poll here a while back. https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,184018.40.html

I myself am an only child and I had ADHD symptoms when I was younger.

It has been suggested that I may be prone to depression or be bipolar (unsure because dysphoria, hormones, and inability to get to a psychiatrist make this difficult to determine) or have mild AIS based on a lack of masculation prior to HRT.
Trying to take it one day at a time :)
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