Second of three, all boys (well for now, all boys), both parents have passed, one from lung cancer, one for Alzheimer. We are all veterans. Very middle-middle class, grew up in the late 50's thru the early 70's, in a large eastern city.
The very idea of being transgender then was out of the question. I could have my dreams but society had you locked in to your roles from birth. How I didn't kill myself between then and now, God only knows.