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What made you happy today? For mtF members only, please. 2.0

Started by kittenpower, March 18, 2016, 02:49:34 PM

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Nicole A.

Beginning my jouney, wish me luck!
Almost 3months HRT, feeling happier  :icon_wave:




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tgirlamg

Quote from: SiobhánF on November 06, 2016, 07:04:50 PM
I finally told my whole family. The reactions were mixed, but the one I least expected to be even remotely tolerant was my father. Damn. He surprised the hell out of me.  All he could say was, "Wow. (ad nauseam) Well, this doesn't change anything between us. You're still my kid and I will always love you, no matter what you do." This made my heart feel so alive. The fire is alive in me and I'm about to divulge the info on facebook to everybody. I feel that I can do anything, now. I feel unstoppable, thanks to the one I didn't expect to get that from.

#FeelinTheLove

What a great post Siobhan!!!... Congrats!!!! ...  i have no doubt you are going to take your life where it needs to go!!!! Grab that steering wheel and hit the gas!!!!

Onward we go!!!

Ashley :)
"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment" ... Ralph Waldo Emerson 🌸

"The individual has always had to struggle from being overwhelmed by the tribe... But, no price is too high for the privilege of owning yourself" ... Rudyard Kipling 🌸

Let go of the things that no longer serve you... Let go of the pretense of the false persona, it is not you... Let go of the armor that you have worn for a lifetime, to serve the expectations of others and, to protect the woman inside... She needs protection no longer.... She is tired of hiding and more courageous than you know... Let her prove that to you....Let her step out of the dark and feel the light upon her face.... amg🌸

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SiobhánF

QuoteWhat a great post Siobhan!!!... Congrats!!!! ...  i have no doubt you are going to take your life where it needs to go!!!! Grab that steering wheel and hit the gas!!!!

Onward we go!!!

Ashley :)

You're awesome, Ashley! I know I did the work, but I don't think I could have done any of it without the support of those from this forum and from those I've talked with before coming out to everybody. It's so liberating.
Be your own master, not the slave to illusion;
The lord of your own life, not the servant to falsities;
Only then will you realize your true potential and shake off the burdens of your fears and doubts.






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Anne Blake

There are many great threads on this site, this being one of them. Yes, we all struggle, from as trivial as how to survive a broken nail to how can I survive in life.......But dedicating a thread with so many stories of celebration is awesome. Sharing and reading about what makes and keeps life magic is one of the major legs of support and all of you are doing it so well.

And I just got another piece of that magic this morning that I can't keep to myself. Anne has been out and about to varying degrees for some time now. The one significant person that I could not share with has been my nine year old grand daughter (for relational/legal risks). For quite some time I have so longed to share Anne with her. Well that constraint has been removed and I had breakfast at a local café with her this morning.....can't tell you how scared I was! She is never a morning person and she takes everything from the "Ewww, that's gross" stand point. I was shaking like a leaf when she came in and hugged me. When I asked her what she thought (yes, that was pushing the risk factor), her response was, "Your neat, I love you". Your neat, I love you; the sweetest group of words that I have ever heard. And yes, I will be useless for at least the rest of the day!

Anne
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LizK

Quote from: Anne Blake on November 07, 2016, 10:00:01 AM
There are many great threads on this site, this being one of them. Yes, we all struggle, from as trivial as how to survive a broken nail to how can I survive in life.......But dedicating a thread with so many stories of celebration is awesome. Sharing and reading about what makes and keeps life magic is one of the major legs of support and all of you are doing it so well.

And I just got another piece of that magic this morning that I can't keep to myself. Anne has been out and about to varying degrees for some time now. The one significant person that I could not share with has been my nine year old grand daughter (for relational/legal risks). For quite some time I have so longed to share Anne with her. Well that constraint has been removed and I had breakfast at a local café with her this morning.....can't tell you how scared I was! She is never a morning person and she takes everything from the "Ewww, that's gross" stand point. I was shaking like a leaf when she came in and hugged me. When I asked her what she thought (yes, that was pushing the risk factor), her response was, "Your neat, I love you". Your neat, I love you; the sweetest group of words that I have ever heard. And yes, I will be useless for at least the rest of the day!

Anne

You have had a rough trot the last little while and deserve some happiness. I do hope everything is going better for you now.

Hugs

Liz
Transition Begun 25 September 2015
HRT since 17 May 2016,
Fulltime from 8 March 2017,
GCS 4 December 2018
Voice Surgery 01 February 2019
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Yuusui

My wife went to therapy with me for the first time. The therapist was very good at asking her questions to see how she "really" feels. As I thought and had expressed in previous sessions, she is incredibly supportive. Her concerns are directed strictly to my well being. It was wonderful have the confirmation that I had her support 100%.

Amanda_Combs

Quote from: SiobhánF on November 06, 2016, 07:04:50 PM
I finally told my whole family. The reactions were mixed, but the one I least expected to be even remotely tolerant was my father. Damn. He surprised the hell out of me.  All he could say was, "Wow. (ad nauseam) Well, this doesn't change anything between us. You're still my kid and I will always love you, no matter what you do." This made my heart feel so alive. The fire is alive in me and I'm about to divulge the info on facebook to everybody. I feel that I can do anything, now. I feel unstoppable, thanks to the one I didn't expect to get that from.

#FeelinTheLove


That's really amazing!  And honestly, you have my respect for telling them, and my envy for the way things went.  I hope you continue to have such good fortune!  ;D
Higher, faster, further, more
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sarah1972

Had to introduce Sarah to one of my customers (I work in IT consulting). Response pretty much was: finally- I have been waiting for you telling me since the summer. Guess the idea of clear nail polish and girl boots not being noticed did not work. Oh... and today she showed up with a bag full of cloth she thought might fit me... awesome! A big load of my shoulder since I just started a new 18 month project with them....

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SiobhánF

Quote from: Amanda_Combs on November 08, 2016, 10:16:00 AM

That's really amazing!  And honestly, you have my respect for telling them, and my envy for the way things went.  I hope you continue to have such good fortune!  ;D

It certainly felt amazing. Thank you. :)

I also made the announcement on facebook and the response was overwhelming. I didn't know I had so many good people in my life. I half-expected to lose a few people, but not a one said or did anything that made me feel like I needed to sever my ties with them. I know this isn't the end, but I'm gonna be riding this high for a while.  ;D
Be your own master, not the slave to illusion;
The lord of your own life, not the servant to falsities;
Only then will you realize your true potential and shake off the burdens of your fears and doubts.






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Mariah

Dena being able to help today due to a water outage at the place I share with my fiancé. Dena, Thank you. Hugs
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TonyaW


Had to do something to keep from falling into a further funk over election.
Pedicure worked for a while

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Alyssa M.

This was far from a happy day. But the outpouring of support throughout my various social circles made me ... well, maybe not happy, but grateful nonetheless.
All changes, even the most longed for, have their melancholy; for what we leave behind us is a part of ourselves; we must die to one life before we can enter another.

   - Anatole France
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Dee Marshall

Following some links from and article in BusinessWeek I discovered that I may actually be a Canadian citizen. I don't know if I'll take advantage of that, but I feel less backed into a closet.
April 22, 2015, the day of my first face to face pass in gender neutral clothes and no makeup. It may be months to the next one, but I'm good with that!

Being transgender is just a phase. It hardly ever starts before conception and always ends promptly at death.

They say the light at the end of the tunnel is an oncoming train. I say, climb aboard!
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Pisces228

I have been crying for almost 2 days but today my boss told me that she cares and will try her best to keep me safe.  That made me happy.
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SadieBlake

I was able to catch up with a good friend yesterday as a brief punctuation in a too busy day. We commiserated over our fears for the coming four years and how the left can best continue to make effective change to move the nation forward.

I drank just one beer too many last night after a long day of work and being seriously fatigued from lack of sleep election night and a busy schedule all week. That was good and then this morning it was less so, I woke hungover, eventually puked and spent the day quietly reading and doing a little bit of work.

Finally I decided to get myself off and experienced my strongest girl-flavored orgasm yet, not a bad hangover palliative.
🌈👭 lesbian, troublemaker ;-) 🌈🏳️‍🌈
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I Am Jess

Today marks 11 weeks since I underwent GCS and I feel great.  I have been given clearance from my doctor to begin running again and I have been given clearance to have sex (which is good because I already did that).
                                                        >:-)
Follow my life's adventures on Instagram - @jessieleeannmcgrath
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Tessa James

As many here have already noted we have awoken to a different political climate than just a few days ago.  Our local Q  Center board of directors has been bringing people together for solace, reassurance and support.  I am packing now for a retreat with our Board at a very funky old lodge that features ancient but restored travel trailers.  Being together to establish our priorities and renew our commitments to each other and our community is just the antidote we need. 

Once again, thinking globally and acting locally where we really do make a difference.  Keeping our heads up all!
Open, out and evolving queer trans person forever with HRT support since March 13, 2013
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Yuusui

My wife and I came out to her parents this morning. My mother in law called and talked with my mom after that and it sounds like they had a wonderful talk. When I talked with my mother about it she made a reference to me as her daughter for the first time. She hasn't been taking the news well, so that was an amazing step.

Then, mom sent a photo of me to my mother in law and told me that I looked good in the picture. I sent her the one that is my avatar since it is more recent and I now have bangs. She said that was even better. Today seems to be a turning point!

I Am Jess

A little girls night out with a couple of other members here.

Follow my life's adventures on Instagram - @jessieleeannmcgrath
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Joanne Feliz

I went to the shopping mall today and tried on some fab clothes. Check out my Instagram
Www.instagram.com/joannefeliz had fun shopping.

Aside that when I was in the mall I decided to go and get some food.  I was wearing cool green tartan trousers and a black silk ladies collarless shirt. It doesn't look overtly feminine and a man can pull it off it think. Anyhow I don't think I was looking girly at all(check the pics and let me know if I look like a girl). I mean I think I look obviously like a guy.

I went into a restaurant and I went to the counter to get order a pizza and the waiter said what can I get you madam.  It really surprised me as I start to wonder how others see me. So I said in an obviously male voice I'll order Ina bit after I looked at the menu.

So I ordered my food and was eating away, I noticed a family struggling with some plastic cutlery so I put my hand up to catch the waiters attention and he said quite loud how can I help you madam. I don't remember if that was the same person or if he was mocking me because I don't really look like a girl.  I'm confused now.

Anyway it made me happy even though he may have mocked me or just tried to be nice I really don't know.

I also went into the Mac store to mess around with some makeup lol.
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