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Are you able to suppress your sex drive after T?

Started by KarlMars, March 19, 2016, 07:46:19 PM

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KarlMars

I'm worried that I'll have a sex drive and not be able to work on a job and have no outlet for it. Can a man's sex drive interfere with his work?

AlexW

Non-asexual men work jobs every day?  It's just a matter of self-control, like seeing a donut and not eating it. It can at times be difficult, but pretty much anyone can do it? You won't turn into a slobbering animal, you know?
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KarlMars

Quote from: AlexW on March 19, 2016, 07:57:37 PM
Non-asexual men work jobs every day?  It's just a matter of self-control, like seeing a donut and not eating it. It can at times be difficult, but pretty much anyone can do it? You won't turn into a slobbering animal, you know?

Thank goodness for your reply.

invisiblemonsters

for all you know, your sex drive might not even go up. mine stayed about the same, others have even had theirs decrease. you'll be able to life your life normally.
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FtMitch

Mine went up like CRAZY, but I am still capable of working, lol! The idea that men have sex drives so insane that they can't control themselves is nothing but a myth used to excuse rape or trick people into believing they "have" to sleep with someone because they "need" sex.  I have seen teen boys in my classes distracted by their sex drives, but they are still capable of working and they have a much higher drive than adult men.  It's just a myth.
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jlaframboise

Yeah I agree with everyone else, I mean I like sex a lot more, but working at subway doesn't turn me on too much! It's all about self control and being a decent person imo.
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KarlMars

Quote from: invisiblemonsters on March 19, 2016, 09:05:42 PM
for all you know, your sex drive might not even go up. mine stayed about the same, others have even had theirs decrease. you'll be able to life your life normally.

I'm glad. Thanks for the reassurance.

Arch

Well, we are all different. Suppress? Not completely. But I did learn how to manage it and hold off until an appropriate opportunity arose to blow off steam. Pre-transition, I had a low T level even for a female, and my sex drive was correspondingly low. I started on a "full dose" of T straight out of the gate and became overwhelmed by my sex drive. People told me that the urges would decrease in about six months, but I needed more like a year before I saw a truly significant decrease.

During some of that period, I was working. My job requires intellectual effort; if I'd been back on the assembly line, I'm not sure how things would have gone. I sometimes found myself distracted, but I was fully capable of redirecting my thoughts when I realized that they were going astray. I just kept at it. When I got home, I took care of business. I could certainly hold off that long, although the experience wasn't exactly fun.

I suspect that I was a worst-case scenario or close to it, but I did just fine. So far, I haven't run across a trans man who wasn't able to manage.

Starting at a lowish dose and increasing gradually might be a good idea if you are concerned.
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Tossu-sama

I had basically no sex drive pre-T whatsoever so having it now is... interesting, to say the least. That being said, while it was somewhat confusing at first because it was just so new and bizarre to me, now it's just another natural need like feeling hungry or thirsty and possible to ignore.
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Peep

Short answer, no... it might be weird/unfamiliar and distracting, but it won't interfere with your life
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FTMax

My sex drive went down initially. Now it's back to where it was, but it's still considered fairly low for most people. I generally just don't have any desire for it, but wouldn't describe myself as asexual.

Even when I've been a little pent up, I've never been distracted by it or anything.
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Skyler

I'm well over a year on testosterone, and I have no increase or sex drive at all anyways, never had one and most likely never will.  I still have sex though, as it's still enjoyable.

Oh well :) all case dependant if it concerns you, exercise helps.
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Nygeel

I don't have much of a sex drive. Yeah it peaked shortly after starting but it leveled off and dipped.
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KarlMars

Quote from: Skyler on March 20, 2016, 03:20:26 PM
I'm well over a year on testosterone, and I have no increase or sex drive at all anyways, never had one and most likely never will.  I still have sex though, as it's still enjoyable.

Oh well :) all case dependant if it concerns you, exercise helps.

Thank you. I have an almost addiction to exercise already.

spro

Mine went way up! Just take care of it every morning or night and you're good for working without thinking about it 24/7. Lots of guys have this problem but it's completely controllable.
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Arch

Quote from: spro on March 23, 2016, 12:50:36 PM
Mine went way up! Just take care of it every morning or night and you're good for working without thinking about it 24/7.

Well, I wasn't! I would schedule time in the morning to take care of business--as soon as I woke up--and I would find myself wanting to masturbate again just before I left the house a couple of hours later. Even so, I had to work at "keeping my thoughts pure" while I was at work, and I would often masturbate two or three times before bed that day. I guess the urge would build and then dissipate slowly; the need became less and less intense every time I "did it." But as I said, I managed to get through work.

My days off were interesting, to say the least.
"The hammer is my penis." --Captain Hammer

"When all you have is a hammer . . ." --Anonymous carpenter
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KarlMars

Quote from: spro on March 23, 2016, 12:50:36 PM
Mine went way up! Just take care of it every morning or night and you're good for working without thinking about it 24/7. Lots of guys have this problem but it's completely controllable.

In a female body I have that need more than 2x a day like clockwork and I fear having an erection and discomfort in the future.

Ayden

Mine didn't really change, I just got more comfortable with sex. But,  now, when I'm turned on I'm really turned on.

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KarlMars

Quote from: Ayden on March 23, 2016, 07:39:28 PM
Mine didn't really change, I just got more comfortable with sex. But,  now, when I'm turned on I'm really turned on.

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Sounds good. Congratulations to you!

spro

Ouch, twice a day already? Hopefully it doesn't go up top much. The point is, it's possible to keep your mind off it for the most part while working. If you have trouble concentrating in the first place, you may have a much worse problem. But people who are able to either take care of the urge often enough or who can concentrate well on work, there isn't usually an issue.
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