I'm still struggling to work out how to do this. It seems like I'm only going to be in the same building on birthdays and I don't want to ruin other people's days with my drama... and I still don't think I can handle a phonecall. I could ask my Mum to tell him though, she told my dad for me, but the only problem is I'm not sure how well she communicates the situation
I'm about to change my name if i can find a second witness for my deed poll (they can't be related to me and I have no friends :D) so i really want to update people soon :/